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nightrocket

41 / M / straight / Single

Richfield, Minnesota

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Other
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am multi-talented, unconventional, and passionate.

My Self-Summary

I was raised all over the Midwest and in California. I've worked in retailing, communications, advertising, and the entertainment industry; all successfully.

I'm multi-ethnic and someone with a warm intensity. Nevertheless, I'm animated in the way I communicate and am always up for silliness and hi-jinx. The Russian term "dushevnost" describes me pretty-well: "Soulful and deeply emotive, but also warm, open, gregarious and passionate."

A bit of free association...I'm a big believer in self-determination. I'll bet on my own independent choices before I rely upon astrology, tarot, or palmistry to chart my course. Having said that, all three are intriguing and insightful in their own way.

I've never found age to be a reliable marker of anything; be it maturity or wisdom. So who I contact is based first and foremost on their profile. And those that contact me always receive an answer; whether it feels like a match or not. Replying to all emails is one way I live my values of mutual respect and consideration.

Final thought: I believe a great way to love someone is to make them laugh, smile, or think. And a great way to be loved is to simply open your heart.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm learning. Life has a lot to teach and sometimes I need the same lesson more than once. Central to my journey here is getting to the core: of who I am, what I believe, and what is truest about any given situation.

I’m really good at

Filling out these questionnaires. I want to sign up at every dating site in the world and make a career of it.

The first things people usually notice about me

My voice. I've worked as a voice-over artist.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

-My favorite books are those in the self-help category, although I don't believe that reading them is innately helpful. It is my actual application of wisdom - whether from a book or otherwise - that ultimately creates change.
-Some favorite movies are "Vanilla Sky", "Elegy", "Jo-Jo Dancer, Your Life Is Calling", "Jacob's Ladder", "The 9th Configuration", "Contact", and "Black". I love the stand-up comedy/social commentary of Chris Rock. I admire and delight in the spontaneity and brilliance of Robin Williams on stage.
-A favorite newer musical artist is Dragonette. One of my favorite songs is "I Wasn't Born Yesterday" (Daryl Hall/"Three Hearts In The Happy Ending Machine") The lyrics will tell you a great deal about me.
-When it comes to food, my favorite is a home-cooked meal prepared with love.

The six things I could never do without

1) Creativity: Whether it's putting together an effective life strategy, writing a poem, or trouble-shooting a computer glitch, creativity has many useful applications. It is the original multi-purpose tool.

2) Music: A great friend when celebrating, consolation when sad, and just the thing to make my 3 year old nephew smile.

3) Compassion: It is because of compassion in this world that I survive and thrive.

4) Sleep: I like to sleep long and hard. It's the perfect way to check-out from life for a little while.

5) Touch: Without it, cupping someone's face in your hands, kissing their lips, and holding them in your arms is impossible. There's a reason why babies who aren't held regularly are also less healthy.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Realizing my full potential.

On a typical Friday night I am

Enjoy the absence of any firm plans or set time-frames.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Premature disclosure is not a sign of boldness or honesty. Trust is to be built and cared for, not rushed.

You should message me if

You are...
Forthright
Have a big heart
Laugh easily
Live with integrity
Are nurturing
Emotionally available
Not very busy
Don't value your looks more than your character
And have already unpacked most of your emotional baggage.