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48 F Bellingham, WA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
Middle Eastern, White
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(Note regarding "gay" and, "bisexual" -- I don't like or use those terms; it perpetuates a false gender dichotomy. I ID as queer and find much to be attracted to in people of many [and no] genders.)

I'm passionate, vibrant, funny, opinionated, complex, emotional and usually kind and compassionate. I'm interested in the world and in not sleep-walking through it.

I gravitate toward those who are interesting, intelligent, and full of life. My favorite people are also kind, friendly, funny, gracious and at least occasionally cheerful.

I stand behind and respect President Obama. Other interests include: stand-up comedy, spirituality, animal rights, social justice, LGBTQ issues, immigration, prison reform, grammar, and electoral politics.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in public affairs for a non-profit organization. As an activist/organizer my time is often limited and erratic.

In my down time I can be found singing at the top of my lungs, enjoying quality time with my partners, dancing to sultry music in my living room, playing games with friends, conversing about something interesting, reading something engaging, or playing on my computer. Napping rocks, too.

I love to talk politics, religion too. Otherwise, my sense of etiquette is pretty highly developed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My presence
My eyes
My voice
My opinion
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: sf/f literature, philosophy, fiction, spirituality/religion, and recently young adult dystopian fiction.
Some authors: Marion Zimmer Bradley; Neil Gaiman; Thich Nhat Hanh; George R. R. Martin; Patrick Rothfuss

TV/film: drama, documentaries, HBO series, comedy, animation.
Some titles: About Schmidt; Six Feet Under; Carnivale; Koyanisqqatsi; The Wire; Game of Thrones, Color Purple; Princess Bride, Orange is the New Black

Music: Hip Hop, ambient, Middle Eastern, reggae, 70s and 80s, chick/folk rock, and yes...disco.. Just discovered sissy bounce!
Some artists: Snoop Dogg; Laurie Anderson; Me'shell Ndege'ocello; Hossam Ramzy; Parliament; Bob Seger; Kraftwerk; Peter Gabriel; Panjabi MC, Gillian Welch, Big Freedia

Favorite food cultures: Ethiopian, Lebanese, Chinese, Turkish, Japanese, Mexican
Some foods: sushi (hella), spicy watts/stews good salads, artichokes are sexy, pickles, olives and I am unrepentantly addicted to lemons and limes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(First two tiers of Maslow's hierarchy implied)

Friends/chosen family/tribe
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be better
my faults
my strengths
sex and/or fantasies
how over-analytical I am
...and whether or not I'm spending too much time thinking about all the above.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You're asking me this on a *Friday night*? I am so fucked.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I locked myself into a bathroom on a Greyhound bus once.
You should message me if
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You liked my profile. You want a pen pal or a writing friend. You can has opinions. You care about at least one cause, person, or injustice. You support the rights of people of any gender to love people of any gender. You consistently spell "you" with three letters.

Edit: this profile received two thumbs up from c-c- who thinks nightsinge is awesome.