When I dig deep in the still moments, what I see in my future consort, is a liberated, self possessed, competent, adventurous of spirit, fully embodied, sex positive woman who knows who she is and takes shit from no one - a person who loves them self first - and knows how to love a dedicated partner - someone with whom to go out and conquer the world brilliantly - a partner in love, spirit, play and the business of evolution.
Or else any trickster nymph who can steel my heart (really not that hard to do as I said - but you need the magic key)
I'm a natural born lover (committed and faithful when caught, an ethical slut when on the loose.)
I have a shadow. Can be as distant as present - and therein lies the dance of relationship. The quivering strings, together or apart.
I will migrate for love.
Cutting loose in December after 16 years in Big Sur / Monterey and hitting the road, looking for the next place that sparkles. Thinking of a move to Santa Monica or Montevideo, but spirit and the wind and you will dictate.
Next: It goes without saying that text on a page - labels, belief definitions and okc yes/no questions are not going to define me, or anyone, but you can think of me as a nonconformist, evolutionary, pansexual, pantheist if you like.
I have also found photos to be invariably misleading (so it seems a good idea to make them as representative of the whole physically manifest being we are, as that's all we have to go on till we breach the chasm this platform facilitates. (arty, fuzzy-flattering, pretty landscape and doggy / group shots are all very nice but are not realistic or helpful - just sayin.) And one other thing - if you squeeze your toothpaste tube in the middle - don't even talk to me - ya hear?
I've been exploring okc since mid-june 2013, and this is version 0.687b of me.
NB: this 4.5 min vid is rather good and poignant regarding social networks, authenticity, loneliness and connection - take a peak!
And hey - if you are in the area and practice Orgasmic Meditation (OM) - say hey!