I spent most of my life trying to look out for my family, had some success with one of my little brothers but in the end it's never enough. I'm more focused on me right now, getting my life situated and worked out is going to be my best way to help them out. I have plans, things I want from life that aren't too grandiose like a family of my own a good job and a decent house somewhere I don't have to worry about safety excessively.
I enjoy sitting down with a good book for a few hours reading, fantasy, crime-thriller, physics theory, fiction drama, and anything else that catches my eye.
While most people have a difficult time being able to keep that uncomfortable silence at bay I find plenty of things to talk about and can have you talking more than you thought possible, a talent that comes in handy on a first date. Dates shouldn’t be awkward, they should be fun.
Perhaps though you want to know more about my past, there's some interesting things back there. For starters I was both married and in the military but neither worked out for me despite trying to make it work, which has taught me that if something that major needs to be forced to work, it's not working.
As for what I'm looking for, if you've made it this far you should message me simply for that but, I do want someone who doesn't mind reading a book now and again or watching an old style movie curled up on the couch. I enjoy talking and listening so I do want someone who is able to hold up a conversation. If you have a quick wit and and a good sense of humor we'll get along splendidly. If you're able to have a good time without too much effort, if it's the simple things in life that make you happy I will like you even more, and that's not to say something a bit more complex like an elaborate and well planned out day (or completely spontaneous) is a bad thing at all.
By all means, ask questions, I don't mind going more into detail, if you're interested.