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33 San Diego, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 6
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, French (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hey there,

Just moved to San Diego. I'm stoked to meet new people and explore the city.

In general, I spend a lot of my time in the office, but I'm lucky enough to like what I do and the folks with whom I work.

When they let me out, I try to stay active. I particularly enjoy backpacking, sailing, and riding my motorcycle. When I'm laying low, I like reading, writing (for pleasure rather than for work), and heading out to whatever sounds like fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spend of lot of time working. When I'm not at the 9-5, I'm putting hours in on a new business or I'm working on this body of fiction I'd someday like to finish.

I make a conscious effort to keep my quality of life high. There's so much to see out there, and I'd like to see it all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making awesome meals from random leftovers.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes get a lot of compliments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I wrote my undergrad thesis on postcolonial French lit, so I have a lot of favorite authors in that area. I'm a huge fan of a lot of the canonical po-mo stuff: David Foster Wallace, Don Delillo, Beckett, etc. I also dig stuff that's a little lighter; Ender's Game was one of my favorite books ever.

My taste in movies tends to lean toward dark humor. I like Terry Gilliam stuff. Wes Anderson, Michel Gondry (admittedly typical hipster stuff). Huge fan of David Lynch (although I admit that my seeing humor in his work is a little unusual).

I like a lot of different music. From Tom Waits to Nine Inch Nails to Fleet Foxes to electronica. And quite a bit that isn't coming to mind immediately. My taste in music is largely contextual: expensively produced hip-hop is great for the gym; a dude with a guitar is great for the park.

Food: just about everything, and I love to cook. Maybe we could throw down in the kitchen some time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Water (the delicious kind or the kind you can jump in / sail across)
2. Me time
3. Talent
4. Pen and paper
5. A comfortable place to call home
6. Lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Words. I'm a writer, both for my paycheck and for the maintenance of my sanity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making a point of seeing something I haven't seen before.

Lately, I've been laying low on Fridays so I'm ready to go adventure on Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You so nosy, OKC.
You should message me if
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Any of:

You could show me around SD. Or you'd just be down to explore it with me.

You like backpacking.

You know how to sail.

You want to race go-karts, or anything else really. I love stuff that goes fast.

You write well but don't talk about your writing too much.

It's raining and you want to watch a movie.

It's sunny and you want to lounge in a park.

Or if you just want to grab a cup of coffee or a cocktail. I like meeting people, and I feel like you know more about a person in five real-life minutes than through any number of messages. Besides, you were going to go grab a drink anyway.