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36 Jakarta, Indonesia Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 20, 2014
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Not at all
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently)
My self-summary
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i'm an easy going person, always trying not too hard on myself..just let everything go with the flow but i can be really serious about having relationship and hate dishonesty that i can be really honest to someone then i oftenly got fooled and it hurt me really bad..but it won't stop me for being honest to anyone because i'll always expect the same to my partner whoever he will be :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm doing a single mom of 2 has to do..despite of all my tiredness i enjoy being cuddled with my 2 kids...i love rain..i always wanna sleep when it does :)..creep you all yet? ;p

What i'm doing with my life recently is thinking that one morning i was waking up and knowing that someone i really love doesn't love you anymore for some reasons and wondering what did i do wrong? Two people who are in love should be willing to take each imperfections become perfections and completing each other not the other side around..when i said 'i love you' to someone, i love him for all he is, i'll be faithful to him and put him as water to my throat and as the air that i breath.. But one interesting thing i learned from a friend is that the hardest part of love is to love someone just in its portion, not too much and not's too painful when you give your love 100% to someone who only give you half of it..but i don't know i think if i'm going to do that again..that's just me! :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i'm a good cook, i like to sing, i'm good at not everything ;) just trying to do the best of it
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile..i guess :I
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i don't like reading very much i prefer watching movies (romantic comedy):
- Serendipity
- Leap Year
- Sleepless in Seattle
- Something Borrowed
- One Day
- The Notebook (i just watched it today ;p)
All seems cheesy right? Lol
- Paranormal Activity 1
- The Ring
- The Walking Dead

Musics: all genres, as long as i can sing along :) and i love going to music concerts and doing 'karaoke' together with everyone in the hall :)

Food: relatively all kinds of food (not a picky eater) but if i should choose, i'll go for sushi, Soto, Mie Ayam, Sate Ayam, Bakso, Italian Foods hmmm what else?..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, coffee, my blackberry, high heels, bed, eating
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Recently i spend most of my times thinking about how love could bring happiness and hurt at the same time, how a man who you think would never hurt you turn out to be someone who hurt you the most, how to have an easy, carefree and fun relationship, is there any? Relationship is never been easy because it relates 2 people with totally different characters, thoughts, attitudes, etc..what makes it easy is when those 2 people have LOVE.. end of story! :)

And Moving on is the best REVENGE!:) Semangaat!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
just stay at home with my kids, go to the movies with the kids, and some 'me' time with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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well..i'm in okcupid :))
You should message me if
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You are real, really wanna have a chat and please don't just dissapear...not again :(