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niludevi

50 North Adams, MA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 44–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 22
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Among friends, I'm known as the life of the party because of my bubbly personality and quick laugh. Staying open and learning are important values for me. Sometimes I trust a little more than I should, but I suppose it's better than the alternative.

While I'm naturally playful and light-hearted, I also have a reflective side and a sharp mind that require regular feeding. Quiet walks, time being still and nurturing touch all keep me balanced. I'm very affectionate and communicative and seek the same in my match - someone with depth who has the skills to build and maintain an intimate connection.

I have done some casual dating and always enjoy good company. Ultimately, though, I'm wired for relationship and am looking for a man who wants the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
exploring my passions
advocating for the disadvantaged
being grateful
getting out to hear live music/theater/lectures
asking the big questions
staying curious
expanding my community
remodeling my 1881 Queen Anne Victorian
opening my mind and heart wider
enjoying the children in my life
teaching yoga/leading kirtans
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spontaneity
giving and receiving
being flexible
communicating
going deep
remembering people's names
being fair / honoring your autonomy
intimacy
feeling my body
remembering who directed which movie
celebrating soulfulness
mental stuff
puzzles and strategic board games (watch out!)
adapting
being me (authenticity is important)
finding the car keys
using my soft voice

Not so good at:
putting away clean laundry (really good at sorting, though)
eating half a dessert
doing boring paperwork on time
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I am:
fun-loving
warm
caring
engaged with life
present with people
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Known World, A Hundred Years of Solitude, Annie Lamott's essays, Marge Piercy's poetry and prose, Mary Oliver's poetry
Movies: dramas, Mad Hot Ballroom, The Freshman (it's a long list)
Music: the BSO at Tanglewood, Aiofe O'Donovan, Alison Krauss, David Bromberg, Krishna Das, Gillian Welch
Shows: Oz, Six Feet Under, Sopranos, Top Chef, Parenthood, Prisoners of War, Northern Exposure
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
spiritual connection
hope
trees
music
touch
words
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's important in a situation
what it looks like to treat each other well (and what gets in our way)
how life gets better and richer
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being spontaneous.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be a little geeky when it comes to my professional life ... and geeky can be sexy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-you connect with my words
-you like to laugh and have fun, but are engaged in your inner life
-you can appreciate a passionate, complex, spiritual yet intellectual woman
-you can drive to the Berkshires in under 3 hours - safely :)