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54 Eindhoven, Netherlands Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last Online
Today – 8:26pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I really try to enjoy each and every bit of life. And there are those glorious days that I manage to do so indeed... I tell myself that, after an interesting journey, I've reached quite a decent level of inner balance between mind, heart and sexuality, at ease and connected with who I am. I'm living polyamorous, in freedom, honesty, openness and deep connection with my beautiful wife and my fantastic girl friend. I'm on a continuous quest to further personal development, to connect still deeper to people.

I'm an explorer, creative, independent, I can talk, I can listen, I can laugh, I can cry, I can love, cherish a dose of self-irony, love to pretend I'm an intellectual, definitely spiritual but the scientist in me forged an own no-nonsense, beta-proof version of spirituality.

I have noticed my "personality profile" om OKC rates me as "less spiritual" than average and, yes, I'm not a blind "believer". But to me the choice is not spirituality OR science but AND...

I'm not looking for another relationship here. I hope to find new friendships with interesting, open/broad/different minded women with a fresh look on the universe, that want to be challenged and can challenge me to jointly explore and expand our horizons, either intellectually, spiritually and/or erotically. Sex can be a nice bonus but is not a requirement.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What keeps me ticking is if I can Grow, Connect and Create. I consider myself very fortunate that I can find opportunities for that in many aspects of my life: work (business development), family and friends and hobbies (photography & books). Unfortunately, even if I try very hard, there are only 8 days in a week and 25 hours in a day.....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Loving, talking, listening, thinking, creating, laughing, putting complex stuff in a new perspective
The first things people usually notice about me
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Glasses, ginger hair and (I hope.......) a cheerful and attentive look
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Gödel, Escher & Bach , Zen & the Art of Motor Cycle Maintenance, Foucault's Pendulum, the Bible (as the work of prose with the greatest impact on humanity ever)

Movies: so many.... Koyaanisqatsi and Memento always sound nicely artsy in a profile like this ;-) Most of the work of Stanley Kubrick. But I also admit to Monty Python and Sergio Leone......

Shows: none

Music: In general, the simpler, the better. In classical music: Satie and Arvo Pärt. Classic pop: Lou Reed, Bowie, Stones, Doors but also Pink Floyd. Contemporary pop: I have no clue whatsoever....

Food: anything prepared with love & dedication
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love & intimacy
A good conversation with friends over dinner and drinks
Envisioning & creating something new
Books to hook in my brain

I regret to admit: my smartphone.......
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Spirituality, science, love & philosophy
Business (that's my work......)
My next photography project
All kinds of weird temporary hobbies & interests...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
- hugging & kissing my wife (at least twice daily)
- having a drink or dinner and a good talk with colleagues or friends
- doing something enjoyable, might be relaxing OR more active such as 40up, our local dance party for the elderly.... ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm really bad at finishing off things to the last 100%....
You should message me if
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- you are an open/broad/different minded woman
- you're not slamming the door to someone who is already in a committed relationship
- you like looooong conversations about the Meaning of Life and Other Serious Stuff
- you love to poke around in our deeper inner cores
- you love to hug
- you love to grow, to explore, challenge and stretch the mutual borders of our comfort zones, in whatever area...
- I just managed to get you curious about the guy behind the profile

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