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26 F Cardiff, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Jul 13
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm both emotional and cerebral. I'm passionate. I love discussing emotion, beliefs and knowledge. I love expressing myself verbally, through writing and through creating art. I love learning about others and connecting with people. I am somewhere between introverted and extroverted. I often lean towards quietness to begin with but I can open up quite quickly. I'm intense and analytical but I also giggle, make dirty jokes in the right company and pick people up and twirl them around.

I love to laugh, engage in hyperactivity and silliness and fun, debate philosophy, dance crazily, play fight, fight with nerf swords, climb rocks, do aerial silks, photograph and be photographed, write, paint, collage, use colour, draw, sing, read, watch and discuss interesting movies, play creative or immersive games with people I like, listen to and tell life stories, cuddle, travel, buy clothes, spend time around plants and animals, light candles and eat tasty food with others.

I am non-monogamous. I don't resonate with media stereotypes of beauty. I prefer to create my own culture and beauty. I identify as kinky and have a fetlife account.

I am here because I hunger for people with fascinating minds. I am most drawn to people who are both strongly intellectual and instinctive.

I am sensitive, creative, and intuitive.
What I’m doing with my life
Seeking more meaningful activity, currently.

I've done a number of odd jobs in the past year. I'm was until recently an intern doing volunteer work with middle school and high school students with special educational needs. I worked in retail for a while and then as an art model in the evenings. However, my eventual ideal work would be in the fields of psychotherapy and writing - I hope to become specialise in therapeutic writing.
I’m really good at
• Remaining child-like in the way I see the world and the enjoyment I take in things.
• Seeing beauty in others and all that is around me.
• Being open even in uncomfortable situations because I can't bear a lack of clarity and I'd rather get caught up in tangles for a while than let tangles of lies grow bigger.
• Perceiving patterns, archetypes, meanings and energies in life and enjoying turning that perception into art and writing.
• Fast-reflexes
• Not giving in to tiredness unless I want to
• Cuddling and giving massages
Photography - capturing people's energy (my camera is like another limb to me).
• Staying still for extended periods of time (Art modelling)

I'm working on:
• Managing the headweasel population in my brain
• Trust
• More communication, more action
• My nerf sword skills, aerial silks, airgun shooting
• Writing more
The first things people usually notice about me
An intense look, created by dark hair against pale skin and expressive eyebrows. A curvy compact body and a large amount of energy for a relatively small person. Also, really old scuffed purple boots and mostly dark slightly worn clothes resultant from my perpetual lack of affluence. Messy hair. It has been commented that I come across as youthful.

It has also been commented on that I come across much less seriously and more warmly in person than from my profile by people I've met from OkCupid.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: oryx and crake - margaret atwood, the handmaid's tale - margret atwood, the beauty myth - naomi wolf, the wind up bird chronicle - haruki murakami, moon palace - paul auster, 1984 - george orwell, hater - david moody, the silver metal lover - tanith lee, biting the sun - tanith lee, his dark materials - philip pullman, the hunger game trilogy - suzanne collins, the harry potter series - j.k. rowling
Movies: sunshine, moon, book of eli, looper, howl's moving castle, spirited away, the nightmare before christmas, nausicaa of the valley of the wind, ghost in the shell II: innocence, secretary, collateral, into the wild, the matrix trilogy, v for vendetta, the fifth element, fight club, ghost dog, zatoichi, tremors I & II, hanna, the thing, they live, blade runner, dredd, mad max & mad max II, gattaca, war games, i heart huckabees, american beauty, american psycho, a beautiful mind, the social network, tangled
Shows: game of thrones, six feet under, true blood, the walking dead, dexter, lost, house m.d., fringe, attack on titan, humanity has declined
Music: silversun pickups, shiny toy guns, tettix, bignic, nine inch nails, m83, kavinsky, perturbator, sleeping dog, azure ray, fever ray, placebo, kate havnevik, explosions in the sky, sigur ros, t.A.T.u., butterfly boucher, jewel, goldfrapp, the killers, ladytron, client, the weepies, ingrid michaelson, aimee mann, laura veirs, sia, susan enan, sarah mclachlan, roisin murphy, felix da housecat, underworld
Food: thai, vietnamese, chinese, japanese, tapas, mexican, italian - if only for all the creative pasta shapes :) I also have a special affinity for breakfast foods and peanut butter.
Games: demon's souls, the void, dishonored, shadow of the colossus, warhammer 40 000: dawn of war, terraria, sims 2 & 3, borderlands, dead island, startopia, hotline miami, zelda series, they bleed pixels, cards against humanity, ghost stories
The six things I could never do without
Love: friendships, loves, caring and feeling cared for.
Openness: clarity with others and within my head, a flow of information into and from my mind.
Hope: a sense of faith and purpose
Writing: I am at my happiest when I am able to transmit feeling to words
Something to create pictures with: if pushed to choose - an slr camera, but painting materials would be good too.
Connection: to the world and to others, through all the senses and, yes, through the the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing ideas, painting in my head, writing journal entries in my head, processing my emotions, the people I love, my inner world, the ego, emotionality versus cerebrality, revolution, the universe and deity, recipes, noticing archetypes, seasons and characters, connection, non-violent communication, words, healing emotional wounds and breaking logical loops I get caught in. Also about whatever book I am reading and a number of games - Specifically The Void, at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
I do not have typical friday nights. Ideally I'd be engaged in animated conversation and I also enjoy heading outdoors to adventure. In general the more time I spend outdoors, the better I feel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I tend to be willing to admit quite personal things. I don't guard my stories. I think being open about experiences is one of the things that allows us to grow and connect. One recent vulnerability and something that has caused me growth: I recovered from an eating disorder during which I lost 122 lbs last year. I've been morbidly obese, underweight and everything in between. I am definitely a work in progress.

My myers-briggs type is I/ENFP -

If I'm finding emotional communication difficult, it is frequent for me to draw artless little comics usually involving animals or shape people to express what I'm trying to say. In my healthy states I journal an unusually large amount.

I'm aware my profile is more intense and in-depth than optimum but I figure it might at least deter people looking for background noise and small-talk from contacting me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you enjoy intensity.

I seek intelligent beings. I'd like to meet curious and questioning people, with passion and confidence. I'd like to meet energetic people who value their madness and wildness and people who want to grow, see their lives as a journey and believe in being kind and loving towards themselves and others.

Also if you identify with any of the following:

You believe that life is beautiful and try to see as much beauty as you can -- you love yourself or you're working on it.

You have a youthful spirit and you love to create and adventure. You listen to the animal within you. You're kind and loving as well as honest and aware of your needs. You're accepting and empathic towards others and yourself. You allow yourself and others space to feel and respect those feelings. You know yourself well and/or you're on a journey to know yourself better.