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33 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:44pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Listen, I appreciate genuine interest on this thing, but if all you got in a message is "hi" or "hi sexy" or if you have a shirtless picture in your profile, likelihood is that we aren't a match. No judgement, it's just likely not a match. Not the bait for this particular fishy. And as I believe in not wasting anyone's time, I probably won't reply.

Now that we've got that out of the way:

I'm a self-aware person that actively works on being the best version of herself. I do not like high drama or clingyness, it does nothing for me in either direction.

I don't see the world as good guys and bad guys, just a bunch of people trying to do their best with what they have.

I'm lucky enough to have spent a lot of time flyin all over the world on big adventures on my own- having lots of fun. Changing the adventure a bit to add another person sounds pretty rad. Just moving back to the bay and lookin for a relationship with a smart, strong person who has a healthy dose of emotional intelligence.
What I’m doing with my life
I love people and I'm currently training lots of young ones to be leaders and change the world. Not a bad gig. :)

I also acted in a play last year, could read your tarot cards, and knit a scarf. But not all at the same time, cause that would be weird.
I’m really good at
Listening. Talking. Laughing. Relaxing. Enjoying people. Being a nerd. Singing karaoke. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I laugh pretty loud and love laughter. No really. I love, love, love, love laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm definitely a creature of habit. So I like what I like and I delve in it often.

I do like me some good (and at times bad) tv. I crave specific episodes of The West Wing. The Women of Qumar, Noel, The Supremes, and Celestial Navigation are my favorite episodes (yes, it's that serious). Comedy wise, I'm not into anything revolutionary right now but I'm open to suggestions. I do have a soft spot for The Mindy Project. Yay for women of color actually being on TV!

Movies are good, but I find most tv writing can be much better with a greater diversity of characters.

I absolutely love music. The new Sam Smith CD has me acting like a teenager, staring at my ceiling and contemplating my life choices. haha

All genres - for the most part. I have a particular soft spot for RnB, Hip-Hop, Rock, Salsa and Bachata.

My favorite book is "Eleven Minutes" by Paulo Coelho. It's a fairytale about the intersection of your spirit, heart, and body told through the eyes of a prostitute. Ta-nehisi Coates is one of my favorite writers. I'm sad that journalism is what it is and think magazine writing does a better job of creating a accurate snapshot of events.

The six things I could never do without
My family (my brother and cousins rock, growing up around a lot of dudes makes you a different girl)
My friends (I'm blessed to have really amazing people in my world - this is not an exaggeration, kind of mind blowingly great people)
My culture/history/family story (we carry it with us)
My Droid (more for the music on it, but gotta love having a mini computer)
My career
A good laugh

So I'm sneaking #7 here, I'm grateful for the existence of Big Sur. It's breathtaking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People and how they work. How blessed I am. How to change the world. Why does bacon taste so good?
On a typical Friday night I am
I love a good dinner party. I'm often having friends over for a meal, a drink, and a laugh. Nothing makes me happier than creating a warm/fun night. And now that I'm living in the land of eternal warmth and sunshine, I throw a mean backyard party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can be a major navel gazer. I can lay in a park or on the beach and think and contemplate for marathon amounts of time. In fact, I just did that on a mountain top overlooking the ocean. Truly magical time on my own. I might be just a liiiiittle too happy with my independence but am genuinely working on it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
*you are self aware
*you don't always think you're right
*if you don't take yourself too seriously
*you got jokes
*you don't intend to send me a message that just says "Hey" or the ever more clever "Hey sexy/beautiful"
*don't get thrown off by someone with a lot of drive
*you have faced a fair amount of your own stuff and came out better for it on the other side.