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ninja_guy

30 / M / straight / Available

Valparaiso, Indiana

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
—
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am hard working, kind, and curious.

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My Self-Summary

It's a bit difficult to really get down to summarize myself. To put things blunt and easy, I'm a hard working individual who's looking for a little extra spice in my life. If I'm not working at work, I'm probably working on my business to make that extra money needed in this economy.

I'm in an open marriage and care deeply for my wife - but we also feel that life is too short to not have fun. I just recently hit a mile marker in my life that has made me think a little differently about life in general.

Now, I'm NOT here for plain old sex. I do talk. If things lead to that, then OK, but, it is not a requirement. I'd like to get to know other people and be able to talk. I'm not some ridiculously horny guy that's looking to get laid...so please, if you want to talk, I'll oblige!

What I’m doing with my life

Working working working. Not much else really.

I'm just trying to live out my life in this world, and hoping to make a positive difference for it while I'm here...

A little fun in between of the seriousness of this existance is a definite plus.

I’m really good at

Work...LOL
Listening when someone needs to talk.
Playing computer games.
Being kind. (I know, cheesy, but true nonetheless).

Not sure what else to put here...I'm not full of myself...so...yeah.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my long hair. Even in this age it seems that long hair on a guy is still not completely "normal".

But then again...I'm far from being normal.

Hell, I was walking into the men's bathroom at a casino awhile ago, and was stopped by security..."Ma'am...ma'am..."

I soooo wanted to punch him...but I restrained myself...we all make mistakes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Book/Movie: The Lord of the Rings.
Music: Nine Inch Nails, The Smashing Pumpkins, Metallica, Rammstein, Green Day, etc.

Food: Pizza, chicken wings, beer, sake (japanese rice wine for those of you that don't know), sushi.

The six things I could never do without

Music
Family
Computers
Pizza, beer and chicken wings
Air, water, and food

Meh...I'm outta ideas...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The past, present and future. I think waaay too much. Ask my wife...she'll concede.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either sitting at home playing games...or possibly out at the bar with my wife and some friends.

Usually at home being a bum.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

My toes get tingly during certain "moments". Don't laugh. Seriously. I'll kick you if you do...ok, I won't...but it is embarrasing...

You should message me if

You are curious about anything.
You don't believe that I could possibly be in an open marriage (hey, not all guy are liars and cheaters) and want to talk about it.
You have red hair. I love red hair. Mmmmm, red hair.....

...or any other reason you care to think of...

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