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31 Ypsilanti, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:19pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello my name is Evan. I am a 31 year old Asian (as of 6-27-2014). Up front and honest I have Aspberger's Syndrome . In most social settings I am the Token Asian. I am an fairly easy going person, who usually gets along with most people. I have Asperger syndrome and ADD. I currently am on SSD. I am open about myself. I have done alot of things for jobs I have been a bouncer, security guard, assistant chief, archery instructor, prep cook, babysitter, delivery guy, janitor, day camp councilor, and many others. I am very much the stereotypical Cancer.

I have been in quite a few relationships I have been up front that I am damaged goods. I have had more then my fair share of broken hearts.

I was fence2win though I lost the password so I started a new profile. So far I like this one whole lot better ::shrug::, maybe the testosterone injected screen name lol.

I am Original, a Chameleon (sometimes a Decepticon), an introvert, a caring person, Pikachu (long story ask if you want to know), and a Ninja (whoop whoop).

In Myers-Briggs Typology I am a ISFJ. After much misconception and miscommunication I a will stay up front I am a highly sexual person, though that is not to say that want it all the time or a nympho, though it plays big part if I am in a romantic relationship and/or potential romantic relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have incomplete degree's in massage therapy and graphic design. I am currently saving up to go back to collage. I party sometimes. I am having fun being me. I enjoy exploring spirituality in general. I am looking to go back to school for massage therapy sad thing is none of my credits from before are going to transfer and I will start back to square one.

I am looking for my way in this world just like everyone else. I have my share of falling down but don't we all.

Long term, I am looking for a mate. I am looking for someone who is truthfull with me as well is with themselfs. I am looking for someone to share the adventures of this life with. I am looking for someone who isn't afraid to be in love. I am looking for someone who can still have fun.

Meanwhile I am having fun making new friends and spending time with the ones I have. On a creative note I am in the process of building my first DIY halo suit of armor, once finished I will post pictures of me wearing it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Obtaining hugs for the hug an Asian Foundation ::smirk::. I am told I give good back rubs. I am good at listening to people and helping them solve their problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Um I am the tall Asian with glasses and large hair. Other than that I am sorta shy at times. Once someone talks to me, I open up or so I am told. Other times I walk up to random people and say "hi". I have been called a "goth", a "hippie", a "punk", a "freak" and many others. Though if your going to label me you would have too many words to list in this small square so just label me a Evan and if it really tweeks your mind, ask me what I mean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A. Ender's game, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior, The Redwall Series, The Hobbit Series (aka LOTR Series), Rich Dad Poor Dad, Pathfinder (essentially D&D 3.5 I play it with friends), Random Poets and other stuff (too many to list).

B. Donnie Darko, Donnie Brasco, SLC Punk, 21 Grams, Pulp Fiction, Boondock Saints (1 and 2), Against the Ropes, The Butterfly Effect, Hackers, LOTR (in all its incarnations), Flight of Dragons, Glory, Avatar, Donnie Darko, Borne Identity and Supremacy, Dead Poet's Society, The Punisher ::grins:: (I have lots more just ask me)

C. Flogging Molly, Sublime (the old sublime not the new), Korn, VnV Nation, Evans Blue, Coldplay, Roterstand, Eagles, Beatles, MC Chris, MC Hawking, DragonForce, Five Finger Death Punch, Hinder, ICP, Twiztid, Cake, Disturbed, Nightwish, Inkubus Sukkubus, Hatebreed, Metalica, Dj Clay, Boondox, Meat Loaf, (the ones I have up are in my mp3 player right now) A little bit of everything more likely then not I like it. I used to dj so I listened to all, some to my utter disgust and some saying "this is awesome who is this"

D. If its yummy I like it. I tend to like asian spicy as opposed to Mexican (ps if its chocolate or covered in it, it can't be bad for the most part). I have been asked if you could live off of 5 foods for the rest of your life what would you choose, I chose Slurpee (its its own food group you know), Pizza, Sushi, Steak, and Lima beans (they are epicly awesome).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the usual necessities of life like food, water, shelter, human contact, glasses (blind without them) and other such things, in no certain order what so ever:

1. mind expanding experiences
2. internet (computer and other Tech gadgets included there)
3. good friends
4. hope
5. music
6. dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of my time trying to come up with solutions to the problems at hand, enjoying life, and making new friends. I enjoy helping people solve their problems. I like to think about what makes things tick. Once I find out I have the unfortunate curse that they never listen because I unsually tell them what pitfalls are about to befall them and they are what actually happen because people don't listen. I am beginning to stop listening and seeing because I can't see the end of my own path and others don't care to listen.

"Why am I fated to know all the unhappy endings once I hear the beginning in all its detail?" I wish people would listen when I say hey do this and it will bring you happiness, but no one wants to follow and everyone wants to lead.

"Why does okcupid keep matching me with people I have nothing in common with or at least don't reply am I really that scary?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no such thing as a typical Friday night for me. I could be hanging with friends, at the bar, at the movies, at a friends house, out on a date, or any number of things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What do you want to know about me? I can tell you alot about myself. Ummmm.... I was in Columbine Colorado the day of the Columbine shooting? I considering myself a big hippie? I was adopted from South Korea? Hello my name is Evan, I am a hug-a-aholic? I have been in an abusive relationship before (as in I was the one being abused)? I have almost made it to the nationals in both fencing and magic the gathering? For most people I like the person on the inside just as much, if not more then the person on the outside? Sadly I have found out nice guys finish last? I like to 420? I am allergic to tobacco?

What more do you want to know?
You should message me if
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A. you want to talk to me
B. you aren't a (evil) stalker (only fun friendly stalkers allowed)
C. you want to get to know me
D. you think we could be friends
E. you think we could work as a couple (as in long-term)
F. any combination of the previous
G. None of the above an you just want to
H. You want to contribute to the "hug-an-asian" Foundation
I. You have messaged me and I haven't messaged you back (I forget sometimes I am only human)

On a lot of the questions I have added text, I would recommend reading this to get a better sense of who I am.
Though there are some things I will not tolerate...

A. someone who who isn't willing to be considerate of other peoples views (ie behave in a respectful manner)
B. someone who will not accept me for who I am
C. someone who cannot be honest with me (or themselves)
D. you are contacting me to cheat on your significant other.
E. you are going to judge a book by its cover or people that someone associate themselves with every bunch of apples as a few bad ones.
F. you aren't going to want to eventually meet in person ( I can understand being hesitant esp. because of bad experiences but see E.