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35 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:45am
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Entertainment / Media
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I spent a fair amount of time and my formative years in Florida and I miss it sometimes, but even back when I lived there I always felt I belonged elsewhere. I love it in NY and don't see myself anywhere else for the time being; though, visiting friends/family in Jersey and/or Lawng Island are highlights of the year.

I'm all about meeting new people and living life to it's fullest right now.

Just got a bike, but haven't ridden it yet. I probably won't until the
tempatures get above freezing.

Love the Fall Season and the Winter.

I can be shy at first but open up after getting to know
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm traveling a lot in the next months (311 Cruise to Turks & Caicos Islands, road trip to Kentucky, Rome & Naples!, and Lake George). It's gonna be quite the year since I've never done this much traveling. I plan on seeing a lot more of this planet of ours.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, Organizing, Keeping Neat, Keeping Things forever (need to get bad at this lol), Figuring out issues with my family's computers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My complete lack of hair.

Though the last thing people notice is my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Hermann Hesse, The Secret of NIMH, A Density of Souls by
Christopher Rice, Mysterious Skin by Scott Heim, Kief Hillsbery,
Harry Potter Series, War Boy, Issac Asimov, Foundation series, Demian

Movies: The Incredibles, Misery, The Matrix, Bad Education, Terminator, The Nightmare Before Christmas, American Beauty, Dolores Claiborne, Y tu mamá también, Avatar, Dead Poet's Society, Hamam, The Dark Knight, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Clue, Harry Potter Series, Terminator 2: Judgment Day, Star Trek: First Contact, Inception, Airplane!, Memento, Moulin Rouge!, Stand by Me, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Shawshank Redemption, Hunt for Red October, Spaceballs, Star Trek: Nemesis, Alfonso Cuarón, Kill Bill Volumes 1 & 2, Children of Men, Slumdog Millionaire, Wanted, Tron: Legacy

TV Shows: The Vampire Diaries, The X-Files, Beautiful People, Modern Marvels, Top Chef, NUMB3RS, RuPaul's Drag Race, MythBusters, BBC America, So You Think You Can Dance, The Daily Show, Law & Order: Criminal Intent, Being Human, Closer, Law & Order, Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Battlestar Galactica, Doctor
Who, Pushing Daisies, Stargate Universe, Star Trek: The Next
Generation, The Big Bang Theory, Caprica, Desperate Housewives,
Leverage, Six Feet Under, Chuck, 30 Rock, Law & Order UK.

Music: Pets by Porno for Pyros, Romeo + Juliet Soundtrack, The 80s, Nightmare Before Christmas Soundtrack, Superchumbo, Moulin Rouge Soundtrack, Daft Punk Alive 2007, The 90s, The B-52s, Peter Rauhofer, Junior Vasquez, Vogue by Madonna, Madonna, Scissor Sisters, Propellerheads, Pendulum, Linkin Park, Miss Murder by AFI, Moments in Love by Art of Noise, Hunting for Witches by Bloc Party, Industry by the Modern, Genesis by Justice
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, Friends, Food, Friday Nights, Fringe, the letter "F"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next week, the next month, the next year. Moving. Getting rid
of the old. Our small tiny place in Universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends at a bar or home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I didn't think "Lady in the Water" was that bad.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking for someone new to join you for a drink, or a movie, or you really like Fringe, or you can watch Law & Order marathons. Or you have tattoos :-) but not necessary either.