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29 F Providence, RI

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a student of life.

I look about 10 years younger than my actual age, except for the prematurely silver streak in my hair. I'm shy but not for very long. I curse like a sailor and sing in a church choir (and I don't think God gives a shit about me loving women).

I enjoy defying expectations.
What I’m doing with my life
keeping it real. I don't actually know what that means but Murray said it on Clueless so that's good enough for me.

The social scientist in me wants to take a bunch of data and then make a pie chart to upload in this space, although an embarrasingly large piece of the pie would be "sitting on the couch with my laptop while watching tv and talking to my cats". Actually a Venn diagram would probably be best. I do also have a job at a middle school as an aide for kids with autism and I'm finishing my masters in education this spring, God willing. As far as non-couch-related interests go I like cooking, so I'm trying to have people over more because cooking for one is slightly depressing as hell. I also love music and would like to see more live shows than I do. I'm also a fan of karaoke. And board games and jigsaw puzzles. You know what game is freaking awesome? Bananagrams. We should play sometime.

Obviously, I am a super cool person.
I’m really good at
One of my friends is a little overly impressed my (maybe slightly above average?) cooking abilities, which is quite flattering. Last time she was praising something I made she mentioned that she "didn't know how to combine cheeses." So I would say I am definitely good at cheese.

I am also really good at losing my keys. One time I actually had to call out from work because of this magical ability.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know, you'd have to ask them. I've been told I frequently smile to myself randomly while daydreaming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: hard to decide, but Middlesex, Infinite Jest (and not just to be a showoff and gloat that I read that huge fucker! I really did love it. but also, isn't it cool I finished a book that long and sometimes incomprehensible?), and Lamb: The Gospel According to Biff, Christ's Childhood Pal are some of my adult favs. I also really love children's and YA books, including The Egypt Game, the originally Winnie the Pooh books, Son of Interflux, and a lot of others.

Movies: Singin' in the Rain, Jurassic Park, Waitress, The Big Lebowski, The King's Speech

Shows: almost as hard to pick as books. Let's just do 5 off the top of my head and say Sherlock, Parks & Rec (although I don't think this season is as good), the West Wing, Derek (except I cried the whole time) and Better Off Ted

Music: a LOT of different stuff. The Beatles (lifelong obsession), Ella Fitzgerald, Old 97's, Bob Dylan, Dan Bern, Rilo Kiley, Neko Case, Sam Cooke, The Beach Boys, The Noisettes, Rolling Stones, Nina Simone, Beethoven, others.

Food: again, a pretty tough call, but let's say carnitas, cold pizza, cheese, avocados, and cape cod potato chips (original, I hate flavored chips)
The six things I could never do without
1. salsa (the food, not the music or dance)
2. hot water (I have, in fact gone without it for months in other countries, but I sure wasn't happy about it)
3. my friends and family, predictable and sappy, but there it is
4. my two cats -- although I had to get one put down in October, which was horrible. I got another one after she died, though; he doesn't replace her but he is lovely
5. something to read
6. music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
all the super productive things I'm going to do after work, up until the moment I walk into the apartment and remember how much I like potato chips and the internet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I get a little more invested in the lives of fictional characters than I would like.

Also, I've been known to say things like "Who's Mommy's baby? Is it you? IS IT YOU?" to my cat. I find the term "furbaby" disgusting, though. You have to draw the line somewhere.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You would like to actually go out sometime. I am all for minimizing the online contact and seeing how we hit it off in person.

You like yourself. We've all got our issues and neuroses and insecurities, but I want a girl who, on the average day, can recognize her own awesomeness. Confidence is sexy.