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nitebat

61 M Somerville, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Apr 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.69m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Very often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a non-conformist, slightly cynical idealist. I tend to be quiet and not extroverted, which may put some people off. Even so, I think everyone, is fundamentally worthy of respect and capable of greatness, a conviction which underpins my philosophical and political outlook.

I enjoy technology, science, power pop, reading, tomatoes, limericks, beer and wild weather. Even opera and Mahler, on rare occasions, but beware: my tastes are not particularly highbrow in general. My sense of humor is whimsical and a bit earthy. I dislike formality, slow drivers, fundamentalism. I'm also not real keen on writing about myself, so it's better to just ask questions.

Then there's the sense of humor thing. Everyone likes a "good sense of humor". What I mean by that is that I find humor in lots of mundane things, not that I can always make everyone laugh. And my sense of humor is odd. Childish, almost. For example, this skeleton walks into a bar and orders a drink...and a mop. Now, see, I think that is hilarious! Most folks think it's marginally amusing. As I say, I'm a bit off. Whimsical.
What I’m doing with my life
Formulating a long-term strategy for surviving economically while pursuing my interests. Beyond that, I'm working to become unconditionally happy and help others to do the same. Yeah, I know, it sounds pretentious, but it's a natural consequence of my involvement with Buddhism.
I’m really good at
Spending lots of time reading stuff on the Internet. Well, who isn't? OK, how about writing light, rhymed verse. If you piss me off, I'll write a limerick about you.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is that I'm there, because they didn't see me enter the room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Sci-Fi novels by the late astrophysicist Fred Hoyle, Islandia, dictionaries, graphic novels (e.g., From Hell), Paul Krugman. Haven't read much classic or contemporary literature. I tend to stick to nonfiction. No particular reason other than time and necessity.

Movies: Dr. Strangelove, Cook and Moore Bedazzled, American Beauty, Clerks, LOTR, Avatar, District 9, The Social Network, The King's Speech... On TV: Stewart and Colbert, The Young Turks, Eliot Spitzer.

Food: my own bizarre cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Air, food, shelter, music, electric power and the Internet. OK, the last two I could live without, theoretically, but after having to do just that at home for more than two days last summer, I can't say I'm eager to repeat the experience.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
politics, lately. And life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home alone wondering where everyone went.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. You have doubts about the use of "message" as a verb.

2. You're intrigued by my profile, have progressive views, and are a little bit nerdy about some things but still a free spirit.

3. You've answered at least 100 questions and have a match percentage over 80 and an enemy percentage less than 25. The percentages are far from definitive of compatibility, it's true, but they're a reasonable starting point.

Also, if your entire comment is, "Hello. I liked your profile.", I may not respond. Ask a question. Express an opinion. Let's make it a two-way street.