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  • Ages 45–65
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Last online
Nov 10, 2014
5' 7" (1.69m)
Body Type
Buddhism and it’s important
Dropped out of Post grad
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a non-conformist, slightly cynical idealist. I tend to be quiet and not extroverted, which may put some people off. Even so, I think everyone, is fundamentally worthy of respect and capable of greatness, a conviction which underpins my philosophical and political outlook.

I enjoy technology, science, power pop, reading, tomatoes, limericks, beer and wild weather. Even opera and Mahler, on rare occasions, but beware: my tastes are not particularly highbrow in general. My sense of humor is whimsical and a bit earthy. I dislike formality, slow drivers, fundamentalism. I'm also not real keen on writing about myself, so it's better to just ask questions.

Then there's the sense of humor thing. Everyone likes a "good sense of humor". What I mean by that is that I find humor in lots of mundane things, not that I can always make everyone laugh. And my sense of humor is odd. Childish, almost. For example, this skeleton walks into a bar and orders a drink...and a mop. Now, see, I think that is hilarious! Most folks think it's marginally amusing. As I say, I'm a bit off. Whimsical.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Formulating a long-term strategy for surviving economically while pursuing my interests. Beyond that, I'm working to become unconditionally happy and help others to do the same. Yeah, I know, it sounds pretentious, but it's a natural consequence of my involvement with Buddhism.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spending lots of time reading stuff on the Internet. Well, who isn't? OK, how about writing light, rhymed verse. If you piss me off, I'll write a limerick about you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that I'm there, because they didn't see me enter the room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Sci-Fi novels by the late astrophysicist Fred Hoyle, Islandia, dictionaries, graphic novels (e.g., From Hell), Paul Krugman. Haven't read much classic or contemporary literature. I tend to stick to nonfiction. No particular reason other than time and necessity.

Movies: Dr. Strangelove, Cook and Moore Bedazzled, American Beauty, Clerks, LOTR, Avatar, District 9, The Social Network, The King's Speech... On TV: Stewart and Colbert, Chris Hayes. TV fiction: Breaking Bad was awesome.

Food: my own bizarre cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, food, shelter, music, electric power and the Internet. OK, the last two I could live without, theoretically, but after having to do just that at home for days at a time after Irene and Sandy I can't say I'm eager to repeat the experience. I also value my time alone, strange to say.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
politics, lately. And life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home alone wondering where everyone went.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Briefs, not boxers.
You should message me if
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1. You realize "message" is not a verb.

2. You're intrigued by my profile, have progressive views, and are looking for a man who thinks that the set of one's lovers must be a proper subset of the set of one's friends.

3. You've answered at least 100 questions and have a match percentage over 80 and an enemy percentage less than 25. The percentages are far from definitive of compatibility, it's true, but they're a reasonable starting point.

Also, if your entire comment is, "Hello. I liked your profile.", I may not respond. Ask a question. Express an opinion. Let's make it a two-way street.