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nitewender

34 M Albany, NY

My Details

Last Online
Feb 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Technology
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Against All Odds...

Yes Still here. And finally willing to summarize myself. I am complicated. There are a lot of ways to look at that statement, and everyone will have their own preconceived notion of complicated people, I'd let you have yours, but where is the adventure in that?

In almost any environment I am insecure, but always highly functioning. Meaning, I don't like most people, places and things, but you'll never know it. I appear self confident, well spoken and never break stride, but inside I'm usually wishing, for one reason or another that I could rearrange this scenery (and often do).

I am cutting and judgmental, quick to assassinate a person's character. This is not the same as being mean. I am quite kind, empathetic really, and generous in nature. The sum of it is if I throw more than three words your way, I've already cut you down to size and believe full heartedly that you are a good, or at least amusing person. My quick assessment of people is more of a control method. I'm not manipulative mind you, quite the opposite, so I harness what I expose myself to in order to avoid unpleasant situations.

Art is my life. I prefer to be around musicians, poets, artists, photographers, novelists, sculptors, even the occasional digital designer. Art I live, and art I create, but rarely. I feel that expression is something that should not be taken lightly, and when you have something to say/share/portray do it right. Commercialism sickens me, especially when it applies to art.

I love animals, I tolerate people. I love wine, hate alcoholics. I enjoy the temporary altercation or daydream but hate escapists. I love technology and hate detachment. I love to argue and hate drama.

I am currently discontent. I am breathing melancholy with a hint of swallowed disdain on my lips. I am optimistically cynical. I am spiritually luke-warm. This is far from dead.

I am skeptical, insightful, and bemused
What I’m doing with my life
Fixing that which always will be or should remain broken...
Yeah like everything I say, that has two meanings. People and things.

Easy one is things. I work for Apple, Genius as it is, don't poke fun... that'll make you a customer. I guess my very employment is the fixing of broken things, and thats a little Freudian.

People, thats the harder one. I fix people. I put people back together, patching up the rough/empty/crumbling spots. Pointless endeavor I am sure that will always turn around to bite me in the end.

This is my nature, I am aware it is flawed. I'm not looking to fix myself :)
I’m really good at
jumping first, asking questions when i regain consciousness.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm too polite to be from Los Angeles. Yeah, it used to be my hair, but I've chopped it off... now I'm forcing you to notice something else! Ha!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Alvin Maker (7th Son) Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Big Fish, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Matrix , What the Bleep Do We Know?, Life Of Brian, Memento, Trainspotting, Little Miss Sunshine.Shows: Mad Men, The Newsroom, The Walking Dead, GoT, Downton Abby (don't mock me ;), Six Feet Under, Lost Music: Psychedelic, Shoegazing, head trip rock. Fav bands includes but is not limited to The Catherine Wheel. The Smashing Pumpkins, Radiohead, Thom York, Remy Zero, The Notwist, The Elected, James, Silversun Pickups, Muse, Pixies, The Weeknd, Cut Copy
The six things I could never do without
iPhone. Beginning and end of that list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The near future, Strange Behavior, Song Composition, 80's Sitcoms.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. No really. I need some weekends off.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't admit anything that the general public can read. Most of what I am and where I came from is an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You want to engage in insightful but vague conversation... Or if you're bored as hell.