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39 M Sacramento, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 20
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids

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My self-summary
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Feb 2014 Edit: New summary, profile edit coming soon. Some things have changed, some haven't...

New experiences. An updated profile. A new city. How about some new people in my life?

I've lived in many different places. I grew up in the South, near Memphis, TN. I stayed there until I was 23 when I moved to the Washington, DC area. I stayed in MD for 9 years. I followed my (now) ex to Seattle, WA and stayed there for exactly 3 years. I moved to Sacramento in 2010 and I loved it there. But, the Bay area has more tech job opportunities so I moved to Daly City in 2012. I didn't stay long, however. I moved to Foster City in April 2012 to start a new career.

With all this moving, I've left behind some great friends, but only in the physical sense. All my friends hold a special place in my heart. Thankfully, I get to see most of them about twice a year.

Speaking of friends, I believe in the old saw "Birds of a feather flock together." And looking at my dear friends, they are a lot like me. All are very simple when it comes to the basics in life. Old Navy is preferred over A&F or some other brand. Most hold a bachelors degree and/or are very sharp. Most are computer or gadget geeks. I've never caught any of them in a lie so I believe them to be honest. Most all would enjoy a chat with dinner and drinks over going to a play. Most are evolutionists and not into religion. I am my own person, of course, but it's always an interesting insight to meet one's friends.

Some likes and dislikes and their exceptions:
I love beer. Usually I go for very hoppy, bitter IPAs, but I enjoy Belgian beer from time to time. (Tho Budweiser is like having sex in a canoe; it's fucking close to water.) I enjoy hanging out and chatting with people, especially smart people. I don't like to cook. Eating out is fun for me, but I tend to stay on the low to mid range of restaurants (Chipotle is a regular haunt). I'm not big into art but I love clean, simple and functional designs (think Apple, Porsche/Porsche Design). I don't like traveling that much. I do enjoy Disneyland and Disneyworld.

What I'm looking for on
I am NOT looking for a series of hookups. (A "friends with benefits" situation may happen with the right person, however. Nice big booty+++ LOL.) I'm mostly looking for friends. If that friendship evolves into something more, then that's great too.

Oh, and if I contact you and the message is very short, it's because I never know who will respond. I'll try to say something interesting but I don't want to waste keystrokes for a message that may never get a response.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've got an investment property in Sacramento. I decided it's a good thing to do with my money but not a good thing to do with my time. So, I moved to Foster City to take a job at a very large financial services corporation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out, thinking through everything logically.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm "straight acting." I then have to say to them that there isn't such thing as gay or straight acting unless you're referring to the sex act itself. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I can't read.

Movies: I only have one "favorite," Wonder Boys, but many others are good--most Pixar movies, Forrest Gump...not into sci-fi movies, however. I love movies with sweet story lines.

TV Shows: I usually watch Netflix. I like sitcoms like Family Guy, Roseanne, Malcolm in the Middle, My Name is Earl. I also like Squidbillies and The Daily Show but I don't have cable so I don't watch them often. I've recently begun watching Breaking Bad on Netflix. It's dark, brutal and violent. I love it!

Music: Always my favorite section to read on other profiles. Many say "Everything except..." So, mine is, "Everything except classical and opera." :) I like some rap, some heavy metal, some pop. But I've never liked any classical and opera.
My favorites: Tool; Nick Drake; Hank Williams, Jr.; Jethro Tull; Gill Landry; Old Crow Medicine Show; Oz St. Fossils; Pink Floyd; Rod Stewart; 80s pop and Neil Young (my very fav!). I'll also listen to the top 40 stuff although I have no idea who the artist is or the name of the song.

Food: I'm not a big fan of food, really. I'm very American in my tastes but try to eat healthy (no fried, not a lot of bacon, eggs or cheese). I can usually find something at most restaurants, no matter the cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, sight, hearing, health. I realize this is more of a rhetorical question than real but I do feel one can learn to live without most things and the attachment to things weighs us down.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, often how it relates to the past.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday...nor any other day of the week, for that life is atypical in most aspects.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know the words to/can "sing" the 1989 McDonald's menu song.
You should message me if
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If you actually want a response from someone. LOL Seems many on here "Reply Selectively." I'll reply to everyone, even if I feel we're not a match.