Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I live in West Orange, New Jersey but I find that New Yorkers never
come to New Jersey so I entered Bedminster, New Jersey in the hope
that I will get some matches from New Jersey rather than from New
York. In this photo I am speaking with someone. I have gray hair
and a gray beard.
I am looking to settle down with a Jewish single non-smoking woman
I was born in 1945. My name is Bob. I am single. I am a non-smoker.
I am Jewish. I live in West Orange, New Jersey .
I NEVER go to New York City. I welcome visitors from New York City
of course. Most New Yorkers do not have cars but many nice
restaurants and other places in New Jersey are reachable by mass
transit. I do visit people in New Jersey of course. Most people in
New Jersey have cars, as do I.
I hope that you are willing to meet me. I will be happy to answer
any questions you may have through email. If you wish I will be
happy to email you more of my photos directly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am spending as much time as possible trying to find the right
woman to settle down with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My tastes vary. I have a working record player and fair size record
collection. I have lots of VHS tapes and some DVDs and can play
them both on my equipment. I have lots of books. I enjoy eating at
a number of nice places in New Jersey and if we really hit it off I
will cook for you.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I will meet the right woman. I hope that when I do meet her we
will recognize each other as right for one another and can move on
to thinking about how we may become the soul mates I hope we can
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hoping to meet the right woman. I am Jewish, raised Reform, not
observant, but willing to go to Reform or Conservative Temples with
the right woman if she so desires. Friday nights are the start of
the Jewish Sabbath. Also willing to go out with the right woman if
she does not care to go to Temple.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Might be interesting if I could think of it but maybe I have not
admitted it to myself whatever it might be.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are willing to meet me without a phone call first. There are
too many searchable tools on line that provide too much information
to anyone who has a phone number to check. I only call and only
give my number to people I have met first in person. I am not
married. I only have a cell phone. I will be happy to answer any
questions you may have through email. If you wish I will be happy
to email you directly and to include more of my photos. If you work
in New York City you should know that many people in my area
commute to work in New York City. Having lived in Manhattan in the
past I know I could never live there again. I can see Manhattan
from my windows. If we do end up together and you work in Manhattan
you should be able to visualize yourself living in New Jersey and
if you still wish to work in Manhattan you should be able to
visualize yourself commuting to your work in Manhattan from New
Jersey. If you are williing to meet me in New Jersey I will be
happy to meet you in New Jersey. If you do not have a car you
should know that many wonderful places to meet in New Jersey are
reachable via mass transit. If you do have a car of course you can
meet me anywhere in New Jersey. If you are from New Jersey you need
not worry about what I wrote about Manhattan unless you work in
Manhattan or are planning to work in Manhattan. To simplify things
if you can visualize yourself living in New Jersey that's great.
Please meet me in New Jersey. If you cannot visualize yourself
living in New Jersey please find someone else. I never go to
Manhattan for any reason. Hopefully you can put yourself in the
picture. In the photo of me with gray hair and a gray beard at this
OKCUPID website i am speaking with someone. Perhaps we can meet
sometime soon so that we may speak with one another.
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