Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would love to meet you. I live in West Orange, New Jersey I am
looking to settle down with a Jewish single non-smoking woman I was
born in 1945. My name is Bob. I am single. I am a non-smoker. I am
Jewish. In this photo I am speaking with someone. I have gray hair
and a gray beard. If you live in New Jersey I believe that we can
arrange to meet at some mutually accessible restaurant or book
store cafe without a problem. I am retired so I no longer need to
live near where I used to work. I am free to move at any
I worked in Bedminster, New Jersey. I am retired now. I do not have
a lease on my place so I can move anywhere.
I NEVER go to New York City. I welcome visitors from New York City
of course. Most New Yorkers do not have cars but many nice
restaurants and other places in New Jersey are reachable by mass
transit. I do visit people in New Jersey of course. Most people in
New Jersey have cars, as do I.
I hope that you are willing to meet me. I will be happy to answer
any questions you may have through email. If you wish I will be
happy to email you more of my photos directly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am spending as much time as possible trying to find the right
woman to settle down with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My tastes vary. I have a working record player and fair size record
collection. I have lots of VHS tapes and some DVDs and can play
them both on my equipment. I have lots of books. I enjoy eating at
a number of nice places in New Jersey and if we really hit it off I
will cook for you.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I will meet the right woman. I hope that when I do meet her we
will recognize each other as right for one another and can move on
to thinking about how we may become the soul mates I hope we can
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hoping to meet the right woman. I am Jewish, raised Reform, not
observant, but willing to go to Reform or Conservative Temples with
the right woman if she so desires. Friday nights are the start of
the Jewish Sabbath. Also willing to go out with the right woman if
she does not care to go to Temple.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Might be interesting if I could think of it but maybe I have not
admitted it to myself whatever it might be.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are willing to meet me without a phone call first.
Please do not take this personally anyone's email can be hacked. I
do not put my phone number in emails and advise everyone not to put
her phone number in emails.
There are too many searchable tools on line that provide too much
information to anyone who has a phone number to check. I only call
and only give my number to people I have met first in person.
I am not married. I only have a cell phone.
I will be happy to answer any questions you may have through email.
If you wish I will be happy to email you directly and to include
more of my photos. If you work in New York City you should know
that many people in my area commute to work in New York City.
Having lived in Manhattan in the past I know I could never live
there again. I can see Manhattan from my windows. If we do end up
together and you work in Manhattan you should be able to visualize
yourself living in New Jersey and if you still wish to work in
Manhattan you should be able to visualize yourself commuting to
your work in Manhattan from New Jersey. If you are willing to meet
me in New Jersey I will be happy to meet you in New Jersey.
If you do not have a car you should know that many wonderful places
to meet in New Jersey are reachable via mass transit. If you do
have a car of course you can meet me anywhere in New Jersey. If you
are from New Jersey you need not worry about what I wrote about
Manhattan unless you work in Manhattan or are planning to work in
Manhattan. To simplify things if you can visualize yourself living
in New Jersey that's great. Please meet me in New Jersey. If you
cannot visualize yourself living in New Jersey please find someone
else. I never go to Manhattan for any reason.
Hopefully you can put yourself in the picture. In the photo of me
with gray hair and a gray beard at this OKCUPID website i am
speaking with someone. Perhaps we can meet sometime soon so that we
may speak with one another.
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