Single (widower), 54 years old / German-Irish / 5' 10" / somewhat stocky - 210 lbs - but losin’ the gut / buzzed short, grayish-brown hair / goatee / hazel eyes. Hairy stomach and all other places you’d expect to find some hair! I can kinda look like a daddy (ok, maybe more the older brother); I'm versatile, and so can play either role with a man... but have the soul of a 'boy' still. Firmly believe that being a "Daddy" or "Son" is a loving/nurturing/passionate state-of-mind, not an age-thing... so I'd be happy to find that younger (or older) "Daddy" for in the bedroom.
[SORRY but I do NOT respond to the following things:
1. Automated 'gropes' or 'smiles' etc. (if you’re contacting me, have a bit of something that'll intrigue me, please).
2. Profiles withOUT a picture of your face, or with just your dick or asshole... because frankly I like to be surprised when I finally get to open the gift!
3. Men who live outside of the U.S. as I don't travel or ever plan on moving to Timbuktu, et al.
4. Guys already in a relationship, looking for ‘3rd wheel’, or to fuck on the side, or are separated, or already dating someone else for awhile. PLEASE don’t waste my time or your time by contacting me!]
I’m honest, intelligent, spiritual, creative, loving (a great kisser and a real cuddler), with a dry/witty (at times) sense of humor. I think I rate decently on the masculinity scale. A romantic. I'm quiet among strangers (unless, I’m put in the position of hosting a party or facilitating an event), but talkative with close friends. Will dress up when the situation demands, but really a more a jeans, comfy sleeveless, flannel shirt and boots kind of guy. Very much the domesticated butch, happy puttering around home – sometimes in just a jock . Would like to have a house some day (do some easy home improvement stuff with you), with a little vegetable and flower garden. My idea of the perfect evening would be you and me, and our pets, on and around the couch watching a classic movie on dvd, with popcorn and a bottle of wine… or cooking dinner with a bunch of our closest friends.
I don’t mind if you have 'baggage' (those who say they don't usually having the most of all!)... as long as your 'baggage' matches mine.
COLLECT vintage Christmas memorabilia including antique Christmas tree pins, vintage Christmas cards (and handcrafted items made with them) and cookbooks from the 1930’s through 60’s, along with glass paperweights and Lionel trains.
But when home I want to be in bed SNUGGLING, reading, talking, watching late night TV with my one special man. I READ constantly (eclectic tastes): spirituality; Christianity; geology-earth science; product and special event marketing; paranormal and haunted houses; NYC history; hospitality, poverty and homelessness issues; Provincetown and New Orleans; Spanish language; cooking; LGBT literature and culturel; JRR Tolkien… Flannery O'Connor (and other southern writers), contemporary short stories. And, again, I definitely, really, LOVE CHRISTMAS (it surpasses Halloween!). Enjoy board games, herbal tea/cocoa and homemade cookies on a rainy-snowy night, really. When I’m NOT in a relationship I tend to do a lot of volunteer work to be useful and meet folks… but now in my early 50’s, I’d rather be home with you most of the time.
Not a big sports guy except for HS / COLLEGE WRESTLING. Like to walk daily as part of my diet-exercise protocol… I’d really like to have a PARTNER to work out at gym with. Have been investigating the home gym option as well, but either way would need a partner more experienced with all the ‘machinery’.
SEXUALLY turned on to a guy in (or half out of) a well-cut 3-piece suit, or old tight, worn jeans and a sweaty, ribbed A-shirt! (If you're into construction/roofing or delivering packages for UPS, all the better). Into white socks, jocks, and briefs; pit-sniffin' and tit play; oral sex; Leather (though too much looks downright silly), and safe kink (get to know me to find out what that is). Very into giving / getting slow and intense JO. I'm at my best with a partner who likes to take control (but I also Top when chemistry is right). One-on-one mutuality, constant touching and massage, and verbal fantasy are great turn-ons for me. By the way, I’m not a ‘player’ even being currently single… playing with guys is few and far between by choice.
I’m a second-time WIDOWER, once after 14 years, the other after 6 months, to different types of heart disease problems... both died in their early 50's. I know what it is to have two great relationships and want to have a third which’ll finally last the rest of our wonderful lives together!
WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR:
White or Latino man, age 40-ish to 60-ish, preferably 5’10” or taller. Please be a NON-smoker – though I’ll admit I find pipe-smokers to be hot! - and casual drinker (if at all). You should like cats (I have an all-black short-hair). I like dogs (EXCEPT very small yappy kinds!). Someone who identifies as a Daddy or Daddy-Hunter would be great. Some body hair and facial hair a plus. Since I still have a ‘few’ unwanted pounds, so can you (big, burly, solid, muscular guys won't be discriminated against), though it would be especially great to find someone who already is/wants to get more ‘height/weight proportionate’ with me. I’m especially attracted to quiet, ‘take charge’ kind of guys. Above all you should possess a good, kind, loving heart… and be a ‘one-man-is-good-enough-for-me’ type of guy. Be financially stable (as much as one can be in this recession!). Having some degree of political/cultural awareness and education is a good thing in my book. I'm not looking to control your life and do every little, last thing together, but we should share some mutual interests (in the bedroom and out) and want a stable, comfortable laid-back home life where we can entertain close friends and family. Let’s create our own little oasis away from the damn negative craziness of this world.