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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So here is where I talk about myself..ok well at this point in life I think I have a fairly good handle on where I am, what I want and where I am going. I consider myself a project in progress and I guess I am looking for someone who keeps looking to develop too.

I love this city, grew up in Chicago and I can say that I have built a good life here. I am always trying to learn as a person and I think that the keys to great life are to never get too satisfied with ones self. Mentally it's this that gets me off the bed to the gym...even when it's 6am in the morning or go the extra mile to make something good happen.

I do believe in a balanced approach to life more now then in the past and I am trying to get there. I can be very serious but I do have a highly inappropriate sense of humor, love politics, economics and coffee! Especially coffee..I am looking to cut loose more now and have more fun (there is so much to do in the city) than I have in the past. I am also direct but I have been working on being more thoughtful in delivering the message. A skill not easily acquired when you tend to shoot from the hip.

I grew up being a total geek (yeah I role-played in high school yep I said it) but I also work out and stay fit (I'm not just saying that) I couple of business's and I think I'm doing well for myself.

The easiest way to describe me is dedicated, driven, loyal & self-reliant. However...I can have a biting sense of humor :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a lot (not a surprise), exercise and manage a lot of personal projects...good god I am sure I sound like a serious boring...jackass...I'm not but I am busy and I hate bars and clubs because you can't have a good conversation 9 out of 10 times when you meet someone there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting things done!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well I have gotten a lot of different things told to me in the past but I think thoughtful, analytical and stunningly of these is not true.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't own a TV. Books include the 48 Laws of Power (Robert Green), Ayn Rand's Fountainhead, Omnivore's Dilemma & more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee (I love caffeine)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next project :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know, typical is tough to nail down but I might find myself coming home, seeing a friend or relaxing and going to the gym at odd hours ( I belong to a 24hour gym)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can care too much sometimes.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have your act together and are looking for someone the same way. I do things because I want to and if you do things because you want to and don't care what other people think great! If you have a wicked sense of humor bring it on and if your a honest person with a strong sense of self...then I want to get to know that self.