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nkunin

38 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:39pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello there, fellas. A little bit about myself:
I moved to Oakland a few years ago after living in San Francisco for 11 years. I'm trying to come to terms with being a commuter. Growing up in Minneapolis, I developed a fondness for lakes and have a goal to someday live on a body of water with a dock to fish off of, a canoe to paddle, and a bench to sit on and drink my tea while watching the sunrise/set. I love the urban life, but at some point would like to be able to grow a garden and hang my clothes on a clothesline to dry in the sun.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
By profession I am a social worker, working in public elementary schools. I'm interested in social science research and this fall I'm excited to start working on a research project to explore this interest further. I'm always trying to find ways to infuse the arts and creativity into my life.

I knit, play violin in a community orchestra (made up of mostly retirees), collect records, and listen to public radio while I cook/bake. I like teatime, going for walks, picanics, berrypicking, cabins, singing (mostly to myself), and overanalyzing the minutae of social interactions. I will never tire of reading, watching movies or talking about books and movies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Observing and understanding behavior. I think I'm intelligent socially, emotionally, and musically. I am a critical thinker.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've always been told I have a nice smile. In fact the only sports trophy I ever won was for best sportsmanship on the 6th grade girls basketball team because the coach said I smiled a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Flower: lilacs

Books: How Should a Person Be, The Philosophy of Andy Warhol from A to B, Tolstoy short stories, Lydia Davis, Louise Erdrich, A High Wind on Jamaica, The Sleeping Father, Motherless Brooklyn, Linda Berry, Aaron Kunin, Jane Bowles, Peter Bagge, Dorothy Allison, Lynda Berry

Movies: This is the End, Singin’ in the Rain, Preston Sturges, Jim Jarmush, The Coen Brothers, Hitchcock, Jane Campion, Wes Anderson, P.T. Anderson, Todd Haynes, Mike White, Sophia Coppola, Werner Herzog, Woody Allen, Noah Baumbach

Shows: Top of the Lake, Parks an Rec, The Mindy Project, Curb Your Enthusiasm; Coffee and Cars with Comedians, The Larry Sanders Show, Enlightened

Music: James Jamerson baselines, Stevie Wonder, Raphael Sadiq, Father John Misty, Prince, Middle Brother; Bright Archer, Magnetic Fields, Beck, The Zombies, Elvis Costello, Bowie, Hall and Oates, The Velvet Underground

Food: Mangosteens, Fried Chicken, strawberry shortcake, champagne, fresh tomato basil pasta, mac and cheese, greens, pickles, popovers, Asian food of all kinds!

Artists: Hannah Hach, Romare Rearden, Linda Schwalen, Yoko Ono, Matisse, Jenny Holzer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a pet, stories, beeeautiful music, a good book, tea, trees
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying to have a beginners mind. How to have more music in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating delicious foods and going to the picture show, reading a book and drinking tea under an afghan. I would like to see live music and comedy more often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I snore, although I'm told it's a soft sexy snore. Also I’ve always been an embarrassingly bad speller so don’t think I’m dumb if there is a glaring spelling error in here.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You’re a gentleman, outdoorsman, woodworker, city planner, maverick politician, composer, journalist or a nerd who is knowledgeable in some obscure niche area. Or if you are none of those things, but would like to go out for tea, beers, and/or a walk with me.