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38 M New York, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 5:36pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a healthy mix of geek/hiker/adventurer/foodie/homebody. I love my 5 year old soft coated wheaten terrier. I've lived in Boston, Chicago, and SF before settling in NYC about 13 years ago. This feels like home to me. I love the city, but I also love the country. I'm an extroverted introvert. I believe that things happen for a reason, but we play a role in determining our fate. I've learned to let go, as there are few things we actually control. I like learning new things and getting to know new people. I wish I worked fewer hours and had more time to play. I'm always happy to travel somewhere new and even happier to come back home.
What I’m doing with my life
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My work is somewhere in the intersection of technology, media, video and advertising.
I’m really good at
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listening and solving problems
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The alchemist, Lord of the rings trilogy, Harry Potter, Vampire Weekend, Mika, Matt & Kim, Pet Shop Boys, M. Ward, Battlestar Galactica, True Blood, Shameless, the leftovers, Into the woods, a lover of all food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog, eye glasses, water, green tea, a good nights sleep, and my friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whats for dinner
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chilling out at home recovering from the work week
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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I'm looking for a a kindred spirit, best friend, monogamous lover, someone who lives in NYC. A man who cares for his body and his mind. Chest hair and a nice smile. I really like facial hair. But most importantly, someone who is comfortable just being.