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30 Ben Lomond, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Judaism and laughing about it
High school
Doesn’t have kids
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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non-smoker Santa Cruz local looking for friendship and a relationship.

others tell me that i am a person that is Confident, Ambitious, Generous, Loyal and Encouraging

I enjoy:
science fiction/ fantasy,
card games/ board games
talking about philosophy(s)
making artwork (found object, colored pencil, photoshop, Flash animation)
writhing down my thoughts and ideas.

i think a may have a bit of disleksia (Dyslexia) so pleas ignore my mizzpellings. i don't know why but audiobooks and comic books help
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i am the treasurer of a non profit informal volunteer organization that covers all of Santa Cruz county.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
others have said i have a really good memory for detailed information. if anyone has a question about how something works i'm usually the one they turn to.
others have said i'm like a fortune cooky because i tend to quote (or misquote) things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i have long hair for a guy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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audio books:
Hunger Games, The Golden Compass, Snow Crash, A Dirty Job, The Great Gatsby, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Dracula, , To Kill a Mockingbird,
American gods, A Separate Peace, ,The Hitchhikers Guide To The Galaxy, Ready player one.

Star Wars II, Star Wars III, Star Wars IV, Star Wars V, Star Wars VI,
LOTR: Fellowship of the Ring, Two Towers, Return of the King.
The Never Ending Story, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog,the Holy Grail, Blade Runner, Donnie Darko, Die Hard, Gladiator, V For Vendetta
The Matrix, Kick-Ass, The Watchmen, The Princess Bride, Highlander

Doctor who, @midnight, Daily show, the nightly show, Star Trek
The Cosmos, Red dwarf, Axe cop, Rick and Morty

Classic Rock 104.3 The Hippo

comic books:
Sandman: Preludes and Nocturnes, Sandman:The Doll's House, Sandman:Dream Country, Sandman:Season of Mists, Sandman:A Game of You, Sandman:Fables and Reflections, AMAZING SPIDERMAN#36 9/11 Black Cover, Captain America, Issue # 2 (Vol. 4), Marvel Civil War #1-7, Captain America (vol. 5) #25-#42, crisis on infinite earths, Lantern/Green Arrow, Batman: A Death in the Family, The Death and Return of Superman, Green Lantern : Deadly Force - Issue Number 54, Lex Luthor: Man of Steel, Star Wars: Thrawn Trilogy, Star Wars: Dark Empire Trilogy, Star Wars: Invasion

i would say i try to keep kosher, but i don't

LARPing is a sport, right?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Higher Power (of my understanding)
2. Acceptance
3. Imagination (without it we go nowhere)
4. Human contact
5. Questions (even if there is no or multiple answers)
6. Help (both giving and/ or receiving)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dose the evidence support the idea?
Can the theory be modified to explain the new evidence?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
me and some of my guy friends have a boardgames game nigh on Friday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am looking to love someone for whom they are at this moment in time
I am looking to accept your mistakes and imperfections as part of being human
I am looking to do things to show you that you are important to me
I am looking to hear and respect your opinions and ideas.
I am looking to learn about your favorite things
I am looking to have a monogamous relationship (monogamous = 1on1 partner)

I want to be your friend, partner and lover.
I want to be there for you when you need emotional support
I want to be attentive to your wants and needs
I want to be your prince charming

I am NOT looking for a one-night stand
I am NOT looking to get drunk or high.
I am NOT looking to give or receive money
You should message me if
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if you honestly want to communicate with me.
please also be at least be in the united states, i look forward to meeting someone in person