30 Ben Lomond, CA
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My self-summary
non-smoker Santa Cruz local looking for friendship and a relationship.

others tell me that i am a person that is Confident, Ambitious, Generous, Loyal and Encouraging

I enjoy:
science fiction/ fantasy,
card games/ board games
talking about philosophy(s)
making artwork (found object, colored pencil, photoshop, Flash animation)
writhing down my thoughts and ideas.
What I’m doing with my life
i am the treasurer the Santa Cruz chapter of a non profit organization.

as the treasurer it is my responsibility oversee how there money is spent and arranging fundraising events.
I’m really good at
others have said i have a really good memory for detailed information. if anyone has a question about how something works i'm usually the one they turn to.
The first things people usually notice about me
i have long hair for a guy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hunger Games, The Golden Compass, Snow Crash, A Dirty Job, The Great Gatsby, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Dracula, , To Kill a Mockingbird,
American gods, A Separate Peace, ,The Hitchhikers Guide To The Galaxy, Ready player one.

Star Wars II, Star Wars III, Star Wars IV, Star Wars V, Star Wars VI,
LOTR: Fellowship of the Ring, Two Towers, Return of the King.
The Never Ending Story, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog,the Holy Grail, Blade Runner, Donnie Darko, Die Hard, Gladiator, V For Vendetta
The Matrix, Kick-Ass, The Watchmen, The Princess Bride, Highlander

Doctor who, @midnight, Daily show, the nightly show, Star Trek
The Cosmos, Red dwarf, Axe cop, Rick and Morty

Classic Rock 104.3 The Hippo

comic books:
Sandman: Preludes and Nocturnes, Sandman:The Doll's House, Sandman:Dream Country, Sandman:Season of Mists, Sandman:A Game of You, Sandman:Fables and Reflections, AMAZING SPIDERMAN#36 9/11 Black Cover, Captain America, Issue # 2 (Vol. 4), Marvel Civil War #1-7, Captain America (vol. 5) #25-#42, crisis on infinite earths, Lantern/Green Arrow, Batman: A Death in the Family, The Death and Return of Superman, Green Lantern : Deadly Force - Issue Number 54, Lex Luthor: Man of Steel, Star Wars: Thrawn Trilogy, Star Wars: Dark Empire Trilogy, Star Wars: Invasion

i would say i try to keep kosher, but i don't

LARPing is a sport, right?
The six things I could never do without
1. My Higher Power (of my understanding)
2. Acceptance
3. Imagination (without it we go nowhere)
4. Human contact
5. Questions (even if there is no or multiple answers)
6. Help (both giving and/ or receiving)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how can i improve myself
On a typical Friday night I am
me and some of my guy friends have a boardgames game nigh on Friday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am looking to love someone for whom they are at this moment in time
I am looking to accept your mistakes and imperfections as part of being human
I am looking to do things to show someone that they are important to me
I am looking to hear and respect your opinions and ideas.
I am looking to learn about your favorite things
I am looking to have a monogamous relationship (monogamous = 1on1 partner)

I want to be your friend, partner and lover.
I want to be there for you when you need emotional support
I want to be attentive to your wants and needs
I want to be your prince charming

I am NOT looking for a one-night stand
I am NOT looking to get drunk or high.
I am NOT looking to give or receive money
You should message me if
if you honestly want to communicate with me.
please also be at least be in the united states, i look forward to meeting someone in person.

if i messaged you and there is something in my profile that you find unattractive, please tell me. i want to improve myself