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29 Ben Lomond, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 21
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Judaism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am 29-nondrinker non-smoker Santa Cruz local looking for friendship and a relationship.

others tell me that i am a person that is Confident, Ambitious, Generous, Loyal and Encouraging

I enjoy:
science fiction/ fantasy,
card games/ board games
talking about nerd philosophy(s)
making artwork (colored pencil, photoshop)
writhing down my thoughts and ideas.

someone once told me that i use the word nerd as a badge of honor

i think a may have a bit of disleksia (Dyslexia) so pleas ignore my mizzpellings. i don't know why but audiobooks and comic books help
What I’m doing with my life
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i am the treasurer of a non profit informal volunteer organization that covers all of Santa Cruz county.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
card games, bored games, art work.
understanding the how some things work, but not everything.
others have said i'm like a fortune cooky because i tend to quote (or misquote) things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i have long hair for a guy
i normally wear black
(or red or blue)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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audio books:
Hunger Games, Lord Of The Rings, The Golden Compass, Snow Crash, A Dirty Job, The Great Gatsby, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Dracula, , To Kill a Mockingbird,
American gods, A Separate Peace, ,The Hitchhikers Guide To The Galaxy, Ready player one.

Star Wars 2, Star Wars 3, Star Wars 4, Star Wars 5, Star Wars 6
The Chosen, Inception ,Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog,
the Holy Grail, Blade Runner, Donnie Darko
Die Hard, Gladiator, V For Vendetta
The Matrix, Kick-Ass, The Watchmen, Young Frankenstein
The Princess Bride, Terminator 2 (T2), Fight Club, The Usual Suspects, Highlander

doctor who, @ midnight,
cosmos (Neil Degrasse Tyson)
cosmos (CarlSagan)
Garfunkel and Oates – IFC,
Cartoon Planet, Batman Animated,
Terry Pratchett's Discworld -BBC4,
The Mighty Boosh -BBC3,

Classic Rock 104.3 The Hippo

comic books:
Sandman: Preludes and Nocturnes, Sandman:The Doll's House, Sandman:Dream Country, Sandman:Season of Mists, Sandman:A Game of You, Sandman:Fables and Reflections, AMAZING SPIDERMAN#36 9/11 Black Cover, Captain America, Issue # 2 (Vol. 4), Marvel Civil War #1-7, Captain America (vol. 5) #25-#42, crisis on infinite earths, Lantern/Green Arrow, Batman: A Death in the Family, The Death and Return of Superman, Green Lantern : Deadly Force - Issue Number 54, Lex Luthor: Man of Steel, Star Wars: Thrawn Trilogy, Star Wars: Dark Empire Trilogy, Star Wars: Invasion

i would say i try to keep kosher, but i don't

LARPing is a sport, right?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my Higher Power
2. Acceptance
3. Imagination
4. Human contact
5. Questions (even if there is no or multiple answers)

in the past; i have tried doing without without these thing but it wasn't "living" it was just "existing".
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am looking to love you for whom you are at this moment in time
I am looking to accept your mistakes and imperfections as part of being human
I am looking to do things to show you that you are important to me
I am looking to hear and respect your opinions and ideas.
I am looking to learn about your favorite things
I am looking to have a monogamous relationship (monogamous = 1on1 partner)

I want to be your friend, partner and lover.
I want to be there for you when she needs emotional support
I want to be attentive to your wants and needs
I want to be your prince charming

I am NOT looking for a one-night stand
I am NOT looking to get drunk or high.
I am NOT looking to give or receive money
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday is my day of rest
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i've always wanted to be someone's knight in shining armor to the point where a in high school made a suit of armor out of computer tower shells, leather and rope.
it fell apart after wherein it for a half hour :/
You should message me if
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if you honestly want to communicate with me.