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nm8888

43 M Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:53am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Hi. My name is Neill, age 41, Single Black Male residing in Philadelphia, Pa. Im self-employed, live alone, no children, never been married, non-smoking, non-drinking, and non-drug. Im very passionate, very affectionate, open-minded, loyal, love to laugh, love to smile, and I try to have fun no matter what I am doing. My hobbies are dancing, the arts, weight training, watching sports (Soccer, Football, Baseball, Rugby, Bowling, Formula One Auto Racing in that order), movies, music, bowling, cooking and baking, photography, computers.

I'm looking for a Single Female, ages 32-48, who is just like me personality wise as described a little earlier, and in addition, a woman who has a positive self-esteem, a positive body image in and out of your clothes, embraces sexuality with a voracious, sensual, and uninhibited attitude, and last but not least desires monogamy. I dont consider myself the most romantic man in the world, but I can promise 3 things to the right woman: my time, my heart, and my body. And please, be detailied with your responses. Tell me everything and anything you can about yourself. Take care. :-) Remember, this is a free dating site ladies, so Okcupid is not going to charge you by the word. LOL
What I’m doing with my life
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I am Self-Employed, with a small Ebay/Amazon home business, and I also have my own Blog. When I worked Full-Time, I use to be a Shipping Supervisor for Old Navy Clothing. In this current Economy, it was quite a risk to walk away from a biweekly paycheck with benefits. To be honest, if I was married and had a family, I would have never made that move. But, since its just me right now, I had to take a chance on myself, and so far, its been a good decision.
I’m really good at
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Well, I do love cooking & baking. I don't bake every day, but I do cook every day. Something about taking a bunch of ingredients and watching it become this beautiful, aromatic, and delicious end product, whether its something as simple as a Grilled Cheese Sandwich or something more involved like a Lasagna, its just gets the blood going. :-) Personal Training is something I have a affinity for as well. I have never done it professionally, although the thought has crossed my mind as a possible career if and/or when I decide to get back out in the working world. Massage Therapy is another. I have also been told by past partners that I give really good full body massages. As I mentioned before regarding my hobbies, I enjoy Computers as well. One day, I just sat down, opened up my Desktop case, studied how each part was connected, practiced disconnecting & reconnecting, until it became like changing a light bulb. LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would say first thing people will notice is my smile, followed by my outgoing personality, and since I workout 4 days a week, my body.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Honestly, my favorites are so vast & eccletic, there is no way I could explain it all. :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food.
Laughter.
Affection & Passion.
Sports, especially Soccer.
Electronics/Computers.
The love of a good woman.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really enjoy Board Games. Yes, I know its old-school. Scrabble, Checkers, and Monopoly are my favorites.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to be with a loyal, passionate, affectionate man, and share the desire for developing a long-term relationship. I am not looking for an Online relationship, where we E-mail and/or IM for weeks before we meet. Showing my age here, but anyone over the age of 30 remembers a time when there was no Internet, no Cell Phones, and no Social Media. When you saw someone you were interested in, you would walk up to that person, introduce yourself, state your business, exchange phone numbers, call each other, and go out on a date/dates. Technology is a nice adjunct, but I want to live it, not talk about it. Life is way to short to be wasting time. Take a chance, and just don't sit back and wait for a guy to send the first E-mail. If you haven't realized it by now, men can't read your minds. LOL So, if you like me, write to me and tell me so. :-)