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54 Phoenix, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:16am
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Professionally, I am an overworked but reasonably sane IT engineer for a mega-corporation. Personally, I'm an introspective individual, I believe that periodic re-invention of one's self is a healthy thing to do, and I tend to be all over the place in a lot of areas. I am highly intolerant of the kind of intolerance and narrow-mindedness that seems to run rampant these days. To summarize myself, I'm driven, liberal, impatient, moody, impulsive, vain, irreverent, pragmatic, weirdly spiritual, high-maintenance, an incurable romantic, and both my sense of humor and my mind are typically in the gutter. In other words, I'm a pain in the ass, but you still might like me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working a lot, cycling most days, back for my third time through college.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ummm I'm a really good cook and I love doing it and I'm a decent cyclist (road bike). I'm also well-spoken, a good writer, and have excellent taste across a number of areas.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books... Tom Wolfe is by far my favorite writer and I usually have several books going at once. Food-wise, I don't know if I love cooking or eating more. Indian and Thai are my current favorites. I've got far too many favorite movies to mention here. I like most genres, with the exception being slasher movies, which I can't stand and artsy-fartsy movies, which I don't get. TV... since the unfortunate advent of reality TV, which I find mindless and boring, it's not on a lot. Good stuff from the past were shows like Star Trek, Six Feet Under, and China Beach.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Meaning, purpose, love, sex, good food, and bicycles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Meaning, purpose, love, sex, good food, and bicycles.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sipping good cabernet, cooking something really good, and pondering the important things in life: meaning, purpose, love, sex, good food, and bicycles.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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En vino veritas...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are married or otherwise attached (or not), understand that marriage isn't all it's cracked up to be, and are looking for more than what your current world offers. If you're looking for a distraction that could turn into a lot more than a distraction, you may have found it. (Pictures are not posted for discretion's sake but are available upon request.)