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nnotbob

46 / M / straight / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of law school
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am sweet, introverted, and volatile.

My Self-Summary

My friends say I'm a nice guy: sweet, funny, and smart. The same friends say I'm a sociopath -- go figure. I'm divorced, couple of kids, decently groomed, and my teeth are my own. It's high time I be dating again, or even gettlng into a new relationship.

I'm a chemist (degree's in biophysics), motorcyclist, socialist, Dutch/Irish, from San Diego, SF reader, computer fan, and more.

What I’m doing with my life

Looking for a new job.
Looking for true love.
Trying to become a real human being.

I’m really good at

QC chemistry, Trivial Pursuit, kissing, sex, reading aloud, puns, adoration.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't say much.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(a) The Little Prince, Lord of the Rings, The Dark Tower, books by Tom Robbins, books about psychology, books about history, books about words...

(b) Casablanca, True Romance, The Big Lebowski, Die Hard (god help me), Star Trek IV, Pink Floyd: The Wall, ...

(c) Almost anything but country -- '80s & '90s especially; REM, TMBG, Leonard Cohen, Erasure, NIN, Cure, Smashing Pumpkins, Depeche Mode, Jesus Jones...

(d) Cheese, pizza, crème brûlée, vanilla ice cream, apples, chocolate, anything lemon, and anything spicy.

The six things I could never do without

Affection (emotional, physical, and sexual); books; cheese (especially 6-year-old cheddar); my computer (Macbook Pro); coffee; and physics.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What went wrong.

On a typical Friday night I am

Reading alone or hanging out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Um, private. But I'll tell if you ask.

You should message me if

You want to take a chance on being addored; you have a dark side or an "edge"; if nobody else will play Scrabble with you.