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18 / M / bisexual / Single

Royal Oak, Michigan

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
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Job
Income
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Languages
English

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I am free spirited, surreal, and laid back.

My Self-Summary

I'm a free spirited person. I try not to use traditional labels to explain myself. I'm human, try not to cause anyone harm. I love anything rich to be experienced, it could be a song or image or color or feeling. I love sharing moments with people and laughing. It's not often that I get angry. I'll add more here later.

I chose the Bisexual label because that was the closest thing to pansexual that was an option, and I feel that's where I most identify. I feel like if I really liked a person I wouldn't care about their gender. However so far I've dated all men and am predominately attracted to them, but I'm open to all options + people.

Interests: friends and free love, cats, hugs, psychology, rebekah porter, going places, whatever makes me happy, tricia smith's laugh, surreal or abstract art, bright colors, laughing, optimism, all types of happiness, theories, thought processes, senses, mirrors, eyes, tongues, smiles and laughter, different points of view, disbelief in: an angry god and a love for money over people, indigo children, introspect, glitter, mind expansion, dreams, perceptions, pictures, patterns, kaleidoscopes, spinning, music, free spirits, inspiration, philosophy, conversations, close contact, mouth to mouth, feelings (euphoria and love especially), special effects, lights, textures, warmth, fire, sunshine, rainbows, snow, points of view, peace, the stars and moon, tin foil, disorientation, the pursuit of happiness, ideas surrounding existence and death, chemicals, magic, illusions, and living.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently attending cosmetology school at aveda. Other than that I do whatever feels good at the moment.

I’m really good at

I'm good at seeing beauty in things, there isn't one thing I'm particularly good at.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I'm tall. The clothes I have on that day, or my hair. People's first impressions of me are usually that I'm pretty laid back or maybe unusual.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I don't read much or watch that many movies lately, but I love music.

http://www.last.fm/user/headtotoes

The six things I could never do without

the sky, cosmetics, music, affection, alone time, images

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Reality and perceptions, what it means to be alive. How amazing it is that we're all here floating in space with a bunch of stars. The depth of personal experiences. Why our culture or society holds so much value on certain ideas or beliefs. Who else has similar thoughts.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either sitting around by myself listening to music and entertaining myself, or spending time with a friend going out somewhere.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm genderqueer, which means I don't strongly identify with the gender binary system, and that I don't feel I fit within or can be defined by either traditional gender role. I don't think that people should have to act any certain way according to their birth sex. If that bothers you just don't talk to me.

You should message me if

Anything you read above is of interest to you, and that you think we might get along.