Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am happily divorced single mom of two great kids. They have a dad
who is involved in their lives and we are able to effectively
co-parent. I am looking for a relationship that would start slowly
with the potential for whatever we would choose, although I am more
inclined towards relationships and not looking for casual
encounters. It's cool if you are, I just wouldn't be a match for
you. I am a go with the flow kind of person, I don't get caught up
in drama nor do I have much tolerance for it. I try not to judge
and let people live, I really believe we should all ultimately be
happy and everyone's happiness is different. Very often I try to
find the good in a situation and humor is a key part of my life. I
enjoy cooking and baking. I love visiting museums and exploring
things although I don't get to do it as often as I would like. I'm
a big reader and generally will read anything I can get my hands on
and I still prefer holding the actual book (call me crazy or old
fashioned I suppose!) My brother is a drummer and in a band so I
enjoy going to see him play as well as listening to live music. My
other brother almost played pro baseball so sports have always been
a big part of my life and I can admit I actually really like them!
I'm close with both my brothers and family is very important to me.
My time is somewhat limited with work and two kids but also very
concrete. I can be present and available in a relationship. I am
active both personally and professionally and living life aware in
every moment possible.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising my kids, enjoying family and friends, exercising. Working
with developmentally disabled children with hopes of making a
difference in their lives.
I just adopted a dog a few weeks ago so I am really enjoying
getting to know her. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A tree grows in Brooklyn, The Four Agreements.
Wizard of Oz, Grease, Forrest Gump, Ms. Saigon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, my family, shower, laughter, water, exercise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature and how people interact, relationships, I just think
Why men initiate a message on dating websites and then don't follow
How fortunate I am in the grand scheme of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Movie night with my kids if they are with me. Recuperating from the
week if they are not.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are serious about finding a relationship and are not looking to
email endlessly and would like to meet briefly initially to see if
we connect. I really don't need a pen pal or a texting buddy
(sorry). Also, please don't be vague in your messages. I'm big on
clarity and understanding what someone is trying to get
You can handle someone who is outgoing.
Who are you looking for?
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