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28 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 2
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Not at all
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
My self-summary
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good to have at both weddings and wakes.
What I’m doing with my life
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reading. writing. walking. eating ice cream.
I’m really good at
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eating donuts
The first things people usually notice about me
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people often say i'm exuberant. those people are not wrong. i can also be very quiet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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anne carson, wallace stevens, william gass, harold brodkey, mary ruefle, clarice lispector; magnolia, chasing amy, kieslowski's three colors, a woman under the influence, breaking the waves; scrubs, curb, louie, x-files up to season 8; portishead, all mark kozelek projects, tom waits, rem, new order, natalie merchant, juelz santana's "santana's town," the 2 chainz birthday song music video.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether or not i should go to the bathroom now or if i can wait.

i was recently told by a friend that i think over most of my life more than she's thought over any aspect of hers; that said, a good portion of my thinking-time is, these days, is spent on "self betterment," if you'll pardon the phrase, appreciate the ambiguity & fluidity, and accept the sentiment as thoroughly sincere.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in a place with people doing things or at home doing this
or this
You should message me if
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you, or someone you know, might be interested in being my patron.

really: you, as a person, should feel inclined to act regardless of what i'd want. that is attractive.