Through this site I have met two lovely men and am still living with my partner. And I've decided that I am not looking for any more 'dates'. There are only so many hours in the day, you know!
I am leaving my profile here though as I love this site - I've made some really good friends all over the world - and it seems this is the only place I do any writing!
And I'm still happy to message people - if there's something in my profile you want to chat about - feel free to message me.
This profile is work in progress . . . (as is my life!)
I got here through a polyamory website - it's an area I'm exploring - mainly because my partner is now a transgender woman - and whilst we are currently still in a relationship - I am looking for something more.
Friendship is a good thing to start with. People to talk to and exchange views/ideas with. People to ask me difficult questions - that's always helpful when you're trying to work out what you want - and why you want it!
And after being on here for a couple of weeks and having had to explain what I'm looking for - I have this to add: I know what I don't want - I don't want a big one on one romance - I don't need it now and I'm not sure I believe in it. I just want to make friends with guys and see a few and keep seeing those I want to. I'm not looking for an exclusive relationship - just some good friends with whom I can have fun!
And another thing I've learned - communication is very important to me - it's very hard to become good friends with someone when they are uncommunicative.
And (on a roll here) being open and honest with relationships - to me that's what polyamory is all about. And for me personally it doesn't mean I want to just have sex with random people. I want to have open and honest relationships -and with my partners' partners (should they exist) all being aware of the situation. No hiding stuff.
I am restless, adventurous, and getting sorted