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53 Springfield, MA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 43-56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 9
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), English (Somewhat), English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Widower, starting over.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Steering the ship. It fights me at times, but I still got my hands on the wheel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess I find trying to answer this myself really odd. I don't normally worry about how I'll be "noticed" in social situations especially. I'm not especially shy, but I usually don't try to be noticed either.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read books much anymore. I used to, I think the internet changed my habits tremendously.
I like any genre of movie as long as it doesn't insult me with stupid dialogue, giant plot holes, bad acting, etc.
My music tastes are all over the place, but the late 70's and early 80's "Punk, post-punk, or New Wave" will always be my favorite. So much emotion, so much energy, most honest stuff I ever heard.
I'm a carnivore, but it's not mandatory. I'm happy grazing too. Just please, for the love of all that is sacred, don't ever put raw mushrooms in a salad!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. human contact (dogs are right up there too)
2. laughter (see #1)
3. a good cup of coffee
4. something, anything that makes me think
apparently I still have a couple of big holes in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I can't stop thinking about stuff and just RELAX
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I hate all things "typical". But usually I'm just puttering around, cooking, fixing or fiddling with something, or prepping for something happening over the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will answer any question asked.
You should message me if
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I'm uncomfortable with this header. Who am I to tell you what you should or shouldn't do? Hell, we haven't even met yet!