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noladef4

33 F Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:15am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What can I say? I'm not extraordinary in any way, I'm just me - lover of animals and ladies, just living my life and keeping my nose clean. I love to go out to all kinds of live shows and other crazy events, but I'm also pretty happy staying in and snuggling. I'm funny and clever and like to try new things.

I'm fairly low-maintenance - I don't wear makeup or perfume and rarely get dressed up (but I love to get pretty for folks who appreciate it). I'm not femme, not butch and not andro - I'm just me. My personality is a little more intense than my outward appearance. I'd like to think it's a good balance.

i'm super queer and am open to dating anyone except cis het males - that should tell you a lot about me right there!

I'd also like to say this: these summaries are lacking (to say the least) in personality and info. Please don't let our match percentages or maybe *not* seeing something you wish you had seen in my profile stop you from messaging me. I'm fun and outgoing - let's do this!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What I'm "doing with my life" is trying to go with the flow and live well.

In the literal sense, like most of us, I work a lot and try to make up for it by playing a lot too.

Maybe I don't understand this question? It's not like I save the world each time I get up in the morning! But, I don't litter and stuff, so that counts, right? :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
~my job
~taking care of my furkids
~sexytimes
~yelling funny things at (mostly) appropriate times
~dating - i show up, on time, and ready to learn about someone new
blah blah blah...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile (cliche' but true, it's a pretty nice smile, and my lips are very kissable, I've been told)
I'm tall and have large bazingas
I'm southern and can't help but show it! (but Seattle is my one true home!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As far as movies and TV go, I definitely have eclectic tastes, but I tend towards things that lift me up, make me feel good, like musicals, comedies and the like. My music collection is hugely varied with my go-to genre being classic rock. Yes, I have a record player.

Shows? I'll go to just about anything that's a live performance. I adore being part of an audience that collectively experiences something. Theater, music and performance art stick with me well after the show is over.

For books, I read mostly sociology, sexuality and gender studies books. When indulging in fiction I gravitate towards historical fiction. But, I confess, I do not read as much as I used to nor as much as I would like. It's just how things have evolved. Oh, but I do manage to read a bit of erotica, so....there's that :)

Food is awesome - I definitely love going out to eat and being cooked for!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my 4-legged children
my sexuality (queer & kinky, baby!)
my friends
my car (it's the first reliable car i've ever had)
movies and music
mary jane/bourbon/coffee (it's a tie)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
~LGBTQ rights and perceptions in the media
~animal rights, enrichment and nutrition (also my profession)
~women's rights/feminism (if you are a TERF, not only will we not get along but you should really re-think your bullshit view of women and feminism - i will not debate you on this, as i am right and you are not)
~meeting ladies/queers
~the next kinky thing i want to try - who am i kidding? this should be number 1 on the list!

and, snark-of-the-day: just because i don't have tats or facial piercings does not mean i'm vanilla or boring, believe me! you should find out for yourself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty surprised how challenging it is to meet folks to date in Seattle. There, I said it. There are so many cool queers here - I see you! You're out there! Let's meet up!

Though I'm not shy, I'm usually way too subby to message someone first..... sooooo.......wouldya mind taking the first step?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you have some kind of understanding of the world outside of your own little bubble.
...you're a boi named Sue (or you fall anywhere on the queer/trans* spectrum). I am generally drawn to butch gals and other masculine-identified people, but there are always exceptions!
...you cook! oh please message me if you cook!
...you know how to follow through.

PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME IF:
...you have children living at home.
...you want me to meet/like/be involved with your cis male partner.
...you don't live in Seattle proper.
These three things are pretty much non-negotiable so please be understanding. Thanks!