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54 F Tampa, FL

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 38–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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If you only want to sext and have no intention of meeting, please do not contact me. This is a dating site not a sexting site.

no picture, no response. This is a "dating" site (at least it's supposed to be. .. that is suspect) - Not Pen Pals R Us! If you won't post a photo, you're hiding something. Let's not waste our time, OK?

Third, I will not sext with you, i will not sext you through your morning wood, afternoon hard on, or bedtime boner. You will not receive erotica from me. .. no pic, no video, nada. I know that this is every player's Disneyland, but believe it or not there are a few of us who are legitimately attempting to find someone with substance. There that should eliminate 95% percent of you.

I think I had a moment of clarity.... it's so hard to find someone who wants a relationship because there are thousands of women/men online. .. Why settle for one? Why work at it? No need when you can simply click on the next profile and begin again... want a hook up-go online, want someone on the side-go online, bored with your current partner-go online, current partner isn't prefect-go online ... we are all wasting our time.

I'm really not such a downer. .. but I guess I'm just now realizing why this really doesn't work.

I'm a fun, intelligent, young in spirit, playful, adventurous kind of girl. I dig a guy who is confident, playful, spontaneous, compassionate. He is healthy and fit...take note, this is important. Fitness is a huge part of my life. Of course, I love the usual Florida things, beaches, tiki bars, music on the beach, theme parks. I also enjoy live music, sporting events, live or on tv.

I do have a preference for men slightly younger than myself. A man who is health conscious, exercises (oh hell, that eliminated the rest of you), confident, witty, and charming 😊

Applicants for FWBs, f buddies, one night stands need not apply. Thank you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a mom although she's away at college and thinks she doesn't need me, being a friend, having fun, working hard, keeping secrets (other people's)...I suck at lying..and many things. This feels like a job interview so I'll leave it at that...maybe you'll have the chance to find out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure...comments vary. Would imagine it depends on the person and what they are attracted to, wouldn't it?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many books and movies to choose favorites, watch Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy, Scandal, The Blacklist, The Following; food, vegetarian, no processed food, sushi, any seafood, lots of vegetables; music; Alice in Chains, Metallica, Avenged Seven Fold, Vol Beat, the classics of course, some country, blues and many others...except no no
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my daughter, my faith, intimacy (don't let your mind go straight to the'so much more), laughter, love, my dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people are so selfish, how come so many people are apathetic about life, does love exist, what is my dog thinking, what kind of adventure can I get into this weekend
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
just depends, usually something outdoors
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate vacuuming and grocery shopping
You should message me if
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hell, I guess if you want to