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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Open relationship
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Swedish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I probably should update my profile. Moving to Helsinki and would like to meet interesting people.


I'm a guy looking for something interesting. I like to discuss interesting stuff, read interesting books, dwell in interesting discussion and search for meaning. We are here to help each other get through this thing, whatever it is.

I am opinionated, interested, and active.

In other things I have a low tolerance for stupidity. Or I don't know. I'm not especially proud that I had misspellt "tolerance" for months and months until I noticed. Maybe I just like people who are stupid in the same ways as I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm studying, researching and doing a lot of work for a political organization. I may become a teacher or a researcher someday but I am not in a hurry yet. I'm trying to figure out how to do more of the stuff I find interesting and less of other stuff. It's not too easy, but I think I have a cunning plan.

I like saunas, walking and running. I like to read, think and write.

I especially enjoy making food with and for nice talkative people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking about politics at least I like to do so. Inventing ways to make more salsa with less effort.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My loud laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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politics, xkcd

Favorite Music:
Iron & Wine, Arcade Fire, Postal Service, Bloc Party, The National, The Rakes, Crooked Fingers, The Hold Steady, The Decemberists, Bob Dylan, Calexico, M83, Ladytron, Tom Waits, Flunk, Death Cab For Cutie, Titus Andronicus

Favorite TV Shows:
Six Feet Under, Sopranos, The Daily Show, Futurama, Office (UK), Office (US), The Wire, Mad Men

Favorite Movies:
Magnolia, Dr. Strangelove or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb, Apocalypse Now, Clockwork Orange, Barry Lyndon, Requiem for a Dream, Koyaanisqatsi: Life out of Balance, Ed Wood, Sånger från andra våningen, There Will Be Blood, Primary Colors

Favorite Books:

Slaugterhouse-Five, Ninteen Eighty-Four, Homage to Catalonia, A Short History of Nearly Everything, The Man in the High Castle, Cryptonomicon


Anything that provokes me to think.

Thinking Fast and Slow, Sex at Dawn, Language Intelligence, Nudge, Stumbling on Happiness, How Mumbo-Jumbo Conquered the World, The Signal and the Noise, The Power of Habit, The Men Who Stare at Goats, The Psychopath Test, Command and Control: Nuclear Weapons, the Damascus Accident, and the Illusion of Safety (don't ask me about the last one unless you want a really, really, really boring lecture on nuclear weapons. :) )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Good books
2. Good music
3. Good friends
4. Good food
5. Interesting complex thoughts
6. A nice mixture of complexity and simplicity in life in general
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, ethics, the environment, the future, economics, technology, love, happiness and a whole lot of other things. How to make the perfect pizza without a real pizza oven.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a bar, at home or a friends place having a beer or a glass of wine and talking about interesting stuff with a passion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I might have a thing for data and openness in a relationship is nice.
You should message me if
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You would like to meet at some point but I guess I'd be okay with a message in any case!