39 New York, NY
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My self-summary
I'm a curious connector. I like people, I like traveling, I like staying fit and I like my afternoon cocktail. Life works best when I combine all of the above. I'm in an open relationship with a terrific woman who is smart, hilarious, confident and wildly turned on by this profile. We have discovered that life is a lot better if you communicate well and invite others to join. We're open to most scenarios, although this profile is focused on me connecting with other women. If you're curious what that means and how it works a direct message is probably the best way to learn.

Also, I've found that many people's profile's don't reflect all of their kinks/desires. So if this profile intrigues you and your profile and says "long term relationship" I probably won't message you first. The only real deal breaker is sneaking around: I'm not interested if you are cheating. Have that conversation first.

Finally, I am spending a lot of time in Boston for work. So If you're in the area and know a good bar, let me know!

Also, I come in both a bearded and non bearded version, depending on mood and which clients I have to visit.
What I’m doing with my life
Running, traveling, drinking brown liquids.
I’m really good at
Looking like I know what I'm talking about.
Games that require dexterity but not speed or jumping.
Telling stories (I have a medal to prove this . . and a good story)
The first things people usually notice about me
Deep voice, large head, lots of hand movement.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Back to the Future, cheap dumplings, good booze, breakfast pizza, olives, NY Mag approval matrix (genius), Led Zeppelin, Gun N' Roses, The Lumineers, Johnny Cash and Waylon Jennings are all awesome things.
The six things I could never do without
Six? That's weird, my Taj Majal snow globe, the 747, my friends,'s word of the day, m'lady and my brothers to keep me on my toes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How prespositions are the wrong thing to end a sentence with. And, whom to use the word whom with.

And, why so many women on here give explicit instructions on how to not write like a dummy or what photos not to post. Why all the help ladies? Shouldn't that be the filter you're looking for?
On a typical Friday night I am
You should message me if
You are slightly off kilter, or a copy editor.

You are turned on by another woman being turned on by this profile. Or it doesn't turn you off.

You think a drink would be fun. I'm not looking for a new best friend, but it is a lot more fun when you like the people you sleep with.

You want to chat about ethical non monogamy.

The above makes any sense to you.

Finally, any questions? Ask away.