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norcalhombre

39 / M / Straight / Single

Hayward, California

His Details

Last Online
May 16
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a very down to earth person, low maintenance. I enjoy having fun and have a silly and sometimes wacky sense of humor, tend to poke fun at myself from time to time. lol. I have a great personality, kind, affectionate, patient, caring. Blessed with what you cannot see on the outside.

I love the beach, BBQ's, sports, football, basketball, baseball, soccer, bike riding, tennis, movies, and tether ball. :P I listen to all kinds of music, from Christian Rock to classic rock, some metal, some alternative, some hip hop, and R&B. I'm a Christian, but far from perfect. I don't pass judgement onto others, but I'm looking for someone who has similar values.

My favorite hobby is coaching basketball!; I'm a true Basketball Jones! I've been coaching for about 15 years and recently, started coaching a high school varsity basketball team in Pleasanton. It takes up a lot of my time but I love working with kids and brings me a sense of fulfillment. Most recently, I've has been taking Salsa! I've been going to class 2-3 times a week and loving every minute of it.

I try to make the most of every moment and being present in it because life is short. The time is always ticking and life and time in itself is a gift. I'm looking someone I can connect with on different levels. If you are interested in a smart, witty, funny, guy, OR a Salsa partner, then maybe we should chat. Have a great day.
What I’m doing with my life
I teach at a private middle school in Oakland and I'm a head varsity basketball coach at a high school in the Dublin/Pleasanton Area. I love my job and think of coaching as a great opportunity to inspire my players.
I’m really good at
Performing car karaoke, telling bad jokes, and quoting cheesy 80's movies like it's going out of style. On a more serious note, I'm a pretty good communicator and told that I listen well; it's something that I've worked hard to become. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My personality. Although I'm somewhat introverted, when I get nervous, I usually make people laugh and feel comfortable. An interesting dichotomy, eh?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: The Princess Bride, Wizard of Oz, Any John Hughes film, Scarface, The Godfather (1-2), and Lord of the Rings
Music: AC/DC, Van Halen, Depeche Mode, Prince, Bruce Springsteen, and Run DMC.
Food: Thai, Italian, Vietnamese, and Mexican (I'm a pretty good cook of Mexican cuisine).
Shows: Seinfeld, Chapelle Show, Cheers, ESPN, and anything on the History Channel.
The six things I could never do without
God
My kids (two daughters)
Parents
My phone (what did we do before these addictive things?)
Being active
Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the next step of my life will bring. I'm on here looking for a relationship..so I guess I spend a lot of time thinking what my new partner will be like.
On a typical Friday night I am
strolling the sidelines coaching my basketball team (November-March), at a kids soccer game, or relaxing after a hard week of work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm scared of heights, which makes no sense. When I was younger, I frequently went cliff diving.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
-If you liked something in my profile
-You're not into playing games (so over that)
-You are interested in establishing a great friendship that could lead to something long-term
-Not looking for a booty call (seriously)