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40 San Diego, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 3
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Been in SD for 3 years now from Minneapolis MN. I'm pretty dang funny despite my often "serious" look. I look way younger than I am , which is good I guess ? I Love talking about life , liberty and the pursuit. I value respect, loyalty and honesty and live by the Golden Rule to its core. I have high expectations for myself . I like to challenge the Status Quo and make people think twice before judging others before they know or talk to them. Work hard / Play hard / Relax harder is the name of the game :-D
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently, I am writing my Dissertation for my Ph.D. I also work as a therapist at a crisis house. I play drums in a few SD Rock n Roll band's. I love to play guitar and bass as well :-D I also travel whenever possible , got that wanderlust gypsy blood :-p
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Doing what I say I'm going to do ... It's not that hard ! :-D
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess I often hear that I look like Scott Weiland :-o . Also , that I can speak in complete sentences . lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music Freak ! Fav Genres are ...Old soul (Motown), Classic Punk , Nu-Wave , Old School Rap, 70's / 80's /pop. Glam/Hair/ Classic Metal, Grunge , Lounge , Outlaw Country ,etc. etc.... oh and of course, Prince :-D

Shows- Don't really watch much , if any TV these days but I do like to watch The news.

Movies- Kubrick , Comedy , Older Horror, true crime ...

Books- These days I spend my time buried in my Psychology Texts :-0

Food- No Refined Sugar, no Soy , No Peanuts, No pop , No Gluten , No Processed/ GMO food , Not by choice , by allergy :-/
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Humor , Sunshine, acceptance , Wisdom , Water !
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Existential rumination. Where I've been , where I'm at and where I'm going .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I guess 'typically' I'm playing or watching a show :-D
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Kind of a neat freak . If you are messy , It's ok, but I may help you clean up your mess :-D
You should message me if
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You're are not a flake. You're fun and awesome !