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45 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Not at all
- Other, and laughing about it
- Graduated from university
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
I enjoy traveling to places such as France and New England. I also love exploring the Northern California Coast. I appreciate remote places with little light and noise pollution, but I equally enjoy holidays in the heart of Manhattan and Paris.
I believe that pics and profiles cannot ultimately determine attraction. Two people must meet to determine whether chemistry exists, which in my mind is a mystery. While there is some basis to profiling, I don't take it too seriously or rigidly.
For those into C.G. Jung, I am clearly an "INFP" according to official Myers-Briggs type indicator tests. I'm almost at the extreme end of "N" and "F", and pretty far end of "P." (That's in addition to the test I took on OKC, on which I also came out as an INFP.)
Sidenote: I do not watch porn. Nothing against it but I don't like the desensitizing impact it has on my brain. http://yourbrainonporn.com
I've been super lucky in my career, though I don't define myself by it. I've worked for same company for 16 yrs, in the same basic field for 22. The friends I've made in my career are the most important aspect of it.
I appreciate all sorts of music and theater-- everything from opera to off-off Broadway. My favorite operas are Wagner’s Ring cycle and Mozart’s Don Giovanni. My musical interests also range from Baroque to what I consider to be "classical" jazz (e.g., Miles Davis). I love nearly everything performed at the Berkeley Rep and Marsh. I love classical organ concerts, and spent six weeks attending many in Paris. I used to play the organ.
I do love those old South Park episodes-- laugh out loud funny. I am always up for movies especially independent flicks at places like Roxy and Opera Plaza.
When possible I like to know where my food comes from. Whenever possible I prefer supporting local, organic, small farmers. I appreciate good food and regularly frequent farmers markets. I like trying all sorts of restaurants and cafes in various categories. I’m trying to improve my cooking skills and find myself swearing by my cast iron skillets (I have three. Is that too many?).
I do not watch porn.
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