I have been remiss for not updating my profile before. I have actually met someone on OKC (yes, its possible).
since i am phasing out of OKC you may not have any reason to read further. But in case you do, but I have a few things to share before I hide my profile. This site has been an important place to connect with others and build new and healthier forms of communication than I had in my 35 yr marriage which ended almost a year ago as of this writing. With the new communication and the meeting I have had with women on this site I have been able to realize some of my strengths and also my capacity to give and receive love.
I originally used this site to call for help, and many women were willing to engage me in what seems like looking back, academic discussions about relationships. the exploration was driven by deep fear inside of me that building a strong and enduring relationship with somebody that you loved was right up there with building a rocket to take mankind to the moon.
Thanks to all of yo who engaged me and helped me understand that its not rocket science and that two people who are willing to communicate as honestly as they can, on a regular basis, expressing what is current and important, are clearly able to hold each other over time and maintain intimacy in the face of conflict and misunderstanding.
I am lovable. You are lovable. I am capable of giving love. You are capable of giving love. It helps when two people are ready for each other in their stream of growth. We were born lovable creatures and I believe that we must always hold onto that belief and use our powers of attraction and intention to manifest that which is most important to us. Never give up, there is too much at stake.
When you find the person with that special connection, you understand why its so important. Strive to be complete in your own life, that is what I have learned from a number of amazing women I have met here. But be open to the role a lover can have in reshaping what makes you whole-that is what I am learning first hand.
I give thanks to the universe for each day that my special friend and I are connected. I believe that the ultimate commitment between two people is not for a whole life time, but for a whole day. Living our lives day by day is what I intend to build the stepping stones for a life time of contentment.
Thanks for reading, hold the faith, love is out there.