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53 M Durham, NC

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Man. Husband. Father. Stay at Home Grandfather. Brother. Friend.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it!
I’m really good at
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sexual innuendo. Ha!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue eyes and friendly smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I prefer books and movies in the historical fiction genre. I enjoy all music, especially to hear it live. My favorite local eatery is Toast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
camping gear; coffee maker; smart phone; Pandora Radio; BTN; comfortable walking shoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
becoming the best man I can be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am on a date with my wife Tallulah_Falls or playing with my grandson.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothing here. I am a private person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you are or were a hairstylist (some of my best friendships devoloped when I was a hairstylist); you are looking for a guy to hang with when you don't feel like dining or taking in a show alone; you need a (plus one) for events; you like to dressup sometimes and be noticed; you are independant and affectionate; you have a child around the age of 8 (my grandson is 8) and our dates would be for the kids; you can meet my wife and I can meet your significant other.

I have been married 30 years and I am not interested in one time hookups. I am not looking for a monogamous life partner. I am looking for someone who understands that we are all capable of forming many kinds of friendships, both sexual and nonsexual, but most importantly they are open honest ones.