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54 Santa Ana, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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6' 0" (1.83m)
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Christianity and it’s important
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hi and thank you for dropping by. Writing about one's self is not that easy. You see yourself one way and your friends see you as another .I believe I am a respectful, honest, and trusting (almost to a fault) gentleman. I am a Christian and am am active with my church and in a weekly men's bible study on Wednesday mornings. I am a Reagan Conservative. I love politics, just not a big fan of politicians. My music tastes lean more towards the oldies of the 60s & 70s such as Gary Puckett & the Union Gap, Elvis, Johnny Maestro, The Carpenters, Styx, Boston, Reba, Elton John. I am not a camping kind of guy. My idea of "Roughing it" is a hotel without a golf course. I am open to new adventures with the exception of jumping out of a plane or off some bridge with a rubber band around my ankles. I love dining out as well as staying in with a nice home-cooked meal. I can even cook too!. I believe Chivalry is not dead, at least not to me. Opening doors for a woman is second nature. Romance is fun! There's no rule that says the honeymoon is only a one time thing. Why not make it one every day? That's what makes relationships fun!

I am looking for that special woman who is truly looking for a long term, "Happily Ever After" relationship. First to all, please be over your ex and really ready to move on to a true relationship. I enjoy that company of a woman who has a very feminine side as well as having no problem rolling up the sleeves to play in the dirt, so to speak. She loves being treated as a woman and enjoys having some fun as well. She is just as comfortable in an evening gown as she is in jeans and a t shirt. She likes to keep in shape but isn't so obsessed with having to be at the gym every day. Above all she is the last person I want to leave, and the first person I can't wait to get home to. I know there are times when it is time to be serious and take on the challenges that may arise in life. But let's have fun too! There is so much to do. Discovering new restaurants, getaways to anywhere. Whether is be Vegas, San Diego, Santa Barbara, Temecula for Wine Tasting. These are much more fun when you have someone to share it with, don't you think?

If any of this sounds like you and/or piques your interest, drop by and say hello. Please be local as I have done the "Long Distance" thing and it is just too difficult. Have a fabulous day!
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been in the mortgage and real estate business for over 29 years. I took some time off to be a co founder of a non profit corporation which raises awareness on the issue of International Parental Abduction. I authored a bill in California that was named after my son and was signed in to law by the Governor in 2013
I’m really good at
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Organizing. Problem solving. Making you feel special!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Absolutely no idea. I'm sure everyone has their own thing that catches their eye
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read too much any more, but I enjoy anything by John Maxwell. Some of my favorite TV shows are NCIS, Suits, Burn Notice, Royal Pains. Musically I have Sirius radio in the car and some of my favorite channels are 60s, 70s, and Elvis.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell Phone
Golf Clubs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My son. I can explain why in person sometime
When is this President going to do something right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It could be from staying in for the evening with a nice home cooked meal and maybe even take in a relaxing jacuzzi now that the weather is getting nicer or maybe a night out with friends at some of the great restaurants we have in the area. I'm open. What would you like to do?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Never admit to anything on the computer!
You should message me if
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You like to have fun
Enjoy being active (workout, dining, weekend getaways, golf, etc)
You are truly ready for a long term relationship.
Be geographically desirable. Not looking for any long distance relationships, especially from out of state or country