Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
5th generation Californian, but with a European "pedigree". Meant
in irony only, because Thanks mom! ...for leaving the Swiss Alps to
view the Golden Gate Bridge, and find your guy! And Oakland raised.
It's why a recent Warriors fan poster..."it's rainin' hella
threes!"... made me smile.
Soft-spoken, yet hard-driven -- and can carry a big shtick. Yet
I've had my challenges in life, both silly & serious. It might
have started when I attended an inner city grammar school in my
youth, where I learned to dance to the Jackson Five, and mastered
the finger-roll layup in street-basketball. I'm sure your
challenges have been a bit...different.
Gratitude is one of my favorite words.
I have a soft spot for hand-made goods, crafts, and other fine arts
-- draws me in. I have an academic bent, with an admitted weakness
for scientific or history tomes -- I can devour them. But don't
worry, I would always save an 'appetite' for you, so go ahead and
regale me with your own life tales, obsessions (or
Which brings up...you. You sometimes give in to 'under-thinking'
the moment, yet freely over-think your passions. You might have
some sort of design or fashion sense. Not looking for a clone of my
tastes & interests--counterpoint is good. Sharing is fun. I do
read the profiles, after ogling your pics.
And I freely admit that I'm a "nice guy". There, I said it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a well known sound technology company, on the business
side helping people work smarter by designing visual
representations of data. With the financial security I've built for
myself, I feel free to focus on various outside passions and
interests, near and far. Maybe you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting myself together -- clothes, shoes, a suit. This I
enjoy--sometimes a tad eccentric about it.
Word play -- OKC questions are fun. I do like to write.
Leading local urban history & geography walks. A minor passion
I like to cook -- blame my dear mom and her Swiss 'au pair' past
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not that I really care. Well, I do know quite a bit about local
history and geography. Occasionally boastful about it--but avoids
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: "How to be a Mister, not a Hipster" "Fifty shades of Neigh:
Horses gone Wild" ... Hopefully you read higher-brow
MUSIC: As a true Oakland native, my early tastes were forged in
James Brown, then grooved by Jerry Garcia, sharpened by Too $hort,
punked by Green Day, and then expanded by EDM. Now refined by a
Chopin etude, or a Bach cantata, heh.
MOVIES: Bulworth, Wag the Dog, Woody Allen 'presents'... , La Dolce
Vita, Bridesmaids, Back to School, Dr Strangelove, Beetlejuice,
CitizenKane, Bowfinger... get the Picture?
SHOWS: As in TV? Don't watch that anymore. If you do, have at it. I
did watch Celebrity Rehab awhile back just for the meltdowns.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Health, Books, Curiosity, my "Police" Car, Investments, Being alone
sometimes. Two great children, now on their own.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Partying, doing serious drugs, pimping, watching trash TV, being a
total ne'er-do-well. Silly snarking aside, I stay on the wholesome
side of the house and uncork the little devil in me when called
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Eyeglasses on a lady are very sexy--the more bookish looking, and I
may lose control. Keep them on, so I can take them off.
You should message me if
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You agree that (in principle) my comfort zone could be your
adventure. And vice versa. That's why I'm here...
You like to kiss. And dance -- even if everyone is watching.
You prefer we meet soon and engage our senses rather than idly
construct idealizations built on abstract representations. In plain
English, let's hang out.
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