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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 12:05pm
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am in an open/polyamorous marriage. I am a person who can adapt well to just about any situation. When people first meet me I appear appear very quiet and shy. I am good at listening and observing and like to take the time to really get to know my audience before jumping in. Give me a few minutes, though and I will have you laughing, which I love to do. Problem solving is also something I am good at and don't mind having thrown at me.

Hobbies include but are not limited to:
Being outside (hiking, camping, kayaking, rollerblading)
Cooking and trying out new restaurants
Woodworking (which I rarely get the time to do)
Playing and listening to music. I play a several instruments.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make the most of every moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read often, but not because I do not want to. When I pick up a book the world disappears until I finish. Unfortunately my world is not particularly thrilled with the idea of vanishing for weeks at a time.
A few of the books that I have learned this from:
Lord of the Rings
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series
Harry Potter series
Various Michael Crichton, John Grisham and Tom Clancy Books

Movies: (an incomplete list)
The Abyss, Addicted to Love, Aladdin, August Rush, Avatar, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Contact, Evolution, Fantasia, Far and Away, A Few Good Men, Get Smart, Goonies, Hook, Indiana Jones, The Italian Job, Jaws, King Arthur, Lethal Weapon, The Little Mermaid, Love Actually, Miracle, Ocean's 11 & 13, October Sky, The Princess Bride, Real Genius, Sahara, Serenity, Silverado, Sneakers, Spaceballs, Star Wars, Stargate, The Thomas Crown Affair, True Lies

There is no way to make a list for this. Pretty much any music created during the period Big Bang - Present. However, that is really only because I have not been exposed to anything else.

TV: They tend to cancel any show I get into.
BBC Documentaries, Doctor Who, Firefly, Macgyver, Star Trek

I used to be a picky eater, then I met my wife. I love food, and I love cooking. I am open to trying pretty much anything at least once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, Laughter, Love, Music, Nature and Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now, work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with family.
You should message me if
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