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not_nuts

59 M Stamford, CT

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:42am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Intellectual, overeducated, witty, introverted, thoughtful, skeptical, kind, satiric, trustworthy, indecisive, sensitive, curious, punctual, spiritual, enthusiastic, articulate, cynical, idealistic, far-looking and nearsighted.

Bleeding-heart, tax-and-spend, gun-confiscating, New York Times-reading, NPR-listening, PBS-watching, gay-marriage-approving, tree-hugging, liberal Democrat.

Would rather spend an evening talking politics or literature with a small group of friends than go to a big party. Would rather spend a week on a meditation retreat than a week in Vegas. Would rather go to a museum than a bar.

When I was younger, the quality I valued most in others was intelligence. Now, it's compassion.
What I’m doing with my life
Working (meh!), hanging out with friends, reading, going to the gym, taking long walks in the woods, playing the guitar (badly).
I’m really good at
Talking, and--oddly enough--listening. The latter skill didn't come naturally, though--I had to work at it.
The first things people usually notice about me
You'd have to ask them, I guess.... Perhaps it's my sparkling wit, my abundant charm, my dashing good looks, or my vast erudition. Oh, wait...those are the things that I notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mostly a nonfiction reader these days--history, spirituality, current events. Movies--love the oldies, lots of foreign films, too. Pretty eclectic taste in music, but mostly classical. Food--will try just about anything once. Especially partial to Indian lately.
The six things I could never do without
Nothing material. I've never been the sort of person who's very attached to things...between 1995 and 2000 I lived in five different places, and I left a trail of possessions scattered across the country. I found that not only didn't I miss them, on the whole my life was better without them. My most prized possessions are in my heart and my head, not my apartment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The meaning of life. No, seriously.
On a typical Friday night I am
Too often lately, I'm probably at home. Would like to change that. Or have someone to be at home with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like sappy romantic comedies.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 50–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like my profile and a still, small voice whispers in your ear that you ought to get to know me better--as a friend or possibly something more.