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40 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 1
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't have a list you need to live up to. I'm somewhere on the ambitious/dilettante spectrum.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just returned from another spate of project/travelling.
And I just got reno-victed from Mt. Pleasant, so I'm moving to the West End. Looking for new places to hear things and/or sip things?

I fix the things people write. I try to make things happen. Still looking for more touring opportunities. I hear you knocking.

I am a wicked dancer and record curator; and cocktail mixer...I am too clever by half, but also exceedingly loyal to the people I am fond of.
I miss playing in bands. I've dusted off my rhodes and (child-sized) accordion lately.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wine and food pairings. Fixing scripts. Soothing jangled nerves and/or personalities. Cat wrangling. Record-finding. Thrift shopping.
Teaching. I have taught:
--as an adjunct professor
--a whole room of kids to play "Louie Louie" on the ukulele
--an entire bar to do the Hustle semi-spontaneously.

I might be good to date: I'm busy, I've got a lot on the go, but I'm still attentive; I'm always at the ready with jokes or cooking or records; I like to fool around all the time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have big curly hair and big eyes. I am unrecognizable, apparently, when those are covered. Freckles, maybe, after that?
Riding a bike that's as old as me, or walking briskly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a very good cook. My fridge tends to have a "condiments of the world" aspect.

TV: Transparent, Louie, The Knick. Things that you watch on your computer. Party Down, forever.

Music: (right now) I have too many records.

Also in music: Spaceman 3, old-school soul and funk 45s, the kinks, Fresh and Onlys...Alton Ellis or Toots and the Maytalls for the sound of pure happiness.
Play me something new, too.
I'm probably listening to krautrock or a podcast (radiolab, dinner party) if you see me on the street with headphones.

Books: Recently: Weird memoirs. Heidi Julavitz, John Jeremiah Sullivan, Patti Smith, Jennifer Egan, Etgar Keret, Andrew Solomon, Michael Chabon, always Nabokov, Marquez; magical realism is my written equivalent to psych music, maybe?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A song I want to live in,
food that surprises,
my terribly clever cat,
good conversation,
the colour orange.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Taking this show on the road.
Contagious songs.
Hilarious hosiery.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on one thing or another.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My most successful Halloween costume was probably Animal from the Muppets. We can discuss how one defines success (in this or other contexts) but, I will stand by that answer.
You should message me if
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You're the foxy, intriguing stranger I smiled at while walking/in transit/etc. but you were too shy to strike up a conversation.
I'm partial to cooks, jokers, loveable mop-tops, teachers (and people who can teach me something/anything from bass lines to languages); people who appreciate good value and nice wine.

My family would always say, "Yeder nacht teppel finder tzein tuchus," but this site is making me doubt the statement's sagacity.