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notgareth

30 / M / Bisexual / Single

Perth, Australia

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What's your opinion of female crossdressers?

Mar 4, 2007

What's your opinion of female crossdressers?
  • Isn't that impossible nowadays?
  • I respect them, but they still freak me out.
  • Whatever they do in private is their business.
  • They should be put out of their misery.


Oh I'm well aware that all that all the questions I'm blogging about are sex/romance related, but they're the ones that can piss me off the most.

This one for example: Where's a simple "all the more fun for themselves!" answer? The only remotely positive answer here is suggesting that girls do not have an identity unique from guys. I mean, seriously...
What's your opinion of female crossdressers?
  • Isn't that impossible nowadays?
  • I respect them, but they still freak meout.
  • Whatever they do in private is theirbusiness.
  • They should be put out of theirmisery.


Oh I'm well aware that all that all the questions I'm bloggingabout are sex/romance related, but they're the ones that can pissme off the most.

This one for example: Where's a simple "all the more fun forthemselves!" answer? The only remotely positive answer here issuggesting that girls do not have an identity unique from guys. Imean, seriously...
What's your opinion of female crossdressers?

Would you SERIOUSLY date someone now whom you...?

Mar 2, 2007

Would you SERIOUSLY date someone now whom you knew you absolutely could not marry?
  • Yes
  • No


Assumption in the question: Marriage is something I aim for.

Marriage is a social construct that originated in religion and has bled over to society as a whole. I find it amusing that people desire such social pressure in order to keep a relationship going. I mean, if you no longer love the person you are with, that's it. If you have children to consider then that is again irrelevant of marriage.

It's a religious scam that has bred it's way in to society because popping out new workers is economically positive.
Would you SERIOUSLY date someone now whom you knew youabsolutely could not marry?
  • Yes
  • No


Assumption in the question: Marriage is something I aim for.

Marriage is a social construct that originated in religion and hasbled over to society as a whole. I find it amusing that peopledesire such social pressure in order to keep a relationship going.I mean, if you no longer love the person you are with, that's it.If you have children to consider then that is again irrelevant ofmarriage.

It's a religious scam that has bred it's way in to society becausepopping out new workers is economically positive.
Would you SERIOUSLY date someone now whom you...?

People who like RECEIVING anal sex are...?

Mar 2, 2007

People who like RECEIVING anal sex are...
  • Exploring their sexuality to the full
  • Perverts
  • Beyond my comprehension


Why is the only positive answer in this question suggesting this is an unusual thing to be explored as a new frontier to mankind? It's pretty fscking normal to a large number of people.

My answer would be "enjoying themselves", no more, no less.
People who like RECEIVING anal sex are...
  • Exploring their sexuality to thefull
  • Perverts
  • Beyond my comprehension


Why is the only positive answer in this question suggesting this isan unusual thing to be explored as a new frontier to mankind? It'spretty fscking normal to a large number of people.

My answer would be "enjoying themselves", no more, no less.
People who like RECEIVING anal sex are...?

In a new relationship and your partner...?

Jan 26, 2007

In a new relationship and your partner admits that they have had 14 sexual partners. Does that sound like a lot to you?
  • Yes, and it makes me uncomfortable.
  • I guess, but It doesn't change how I feel.
  • That seems like an average number.
  • No, that's nothing.


Where's the "Yes, and I'm curious to see if that makes them awesome in bed" option?
In a new relationship and your partner admits that theyhave had 14 sexual partners. Does that sound like a lot to you?
  • Yes, and it makes me uncomfortable.
  • I guess, but It doesn't change how Ifeel.
  • That seems like an average number.
  • No, that's nothing.


Where's the "Yes, and I'm curious to see if that makes them awesomein bed" option?
In a new relationship and your partner...?