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notjusanotherjo

43 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:35pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Although I grew up in the South, I avoided the twangy southern accent and do not use phrases like "I'm gonna fix myself something to eat" or "I'm gonna vote Republican." I learned at an early age about the Civil War and how to eat barbecue ribs, but I inherited a midwestern accent, and blue state attitude, from my parents. Having grown up in the Capitol of the Confederacy and successfully escaping to the West Coast makes me truly appreciate living in San Francisco. But, I also lived in New York, and loved it there, except that it is cold, and it doesn't have our medical marijuana laws, so I couldn't practice my craft as an attorney there.

I am inquisitive, cynical, and kindhearted
What I’m doing with my life
Now, I work in Oakland for a nonprofit that advocates for the rights of medical marijuana patients and physicians, which would have been my dream job in law school, except that this job did not exist then. When I'm not trying to stick it to The Man, I like to eat all types of spicy food and chocolate, or combine both pleasures at once by eating mole sauce, and playing basketball and dancing. I have also eaten snake in Vietnam and kangaroo in Australia, but I'm also vegetarian friendly. Nothing, though, beats Cambodian food.
I’m really good at
Keeping people out of jail and, usually, keeping myself out as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile a lot, and some say I talk a lot as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Everything written by Jerzy Kozinski, and everything I've read from Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.; dark comedies, like Welcome to the Dollhouse, In the Company of Men, and Happiness; trance, hip hop, electronica; Cambodian food, Thai food, Vietnamese, French.
The six things I could never do without
Chocolate, spicy food, music, pens, conversation, and chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the novel I am going to write one of these days
On a typical Friday night I am
dancing, drinking, hanging with friends, or playing poker
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating