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26 M Sarasota, FL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:27pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Working on space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Slovak (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Aspiring military vet seeks lovely lady, for good times and good laughs. That almost sounds too cliche...

Hello ladies! I'm Ben with a big B. Get it? notsobigben...anyway, I've moved back to Sarasota about six months ago and started the old college up. So I mostly spend my time with that jazz. I want to make the big bucks someday, I'll probably end up going to law, or investment banking. Maybe own a couple businesses if I can.

Currently I find myself wanting someone to spend time with, and take things slow. I keep dating pretty old school, so I might be kind of boring. I'm not picky about age, and I don't mind kids. I'm a gentlemen in the streets, and kinky mofo in the sheets, so I usually prefer blondes. It's not a deal breaker though. Points if you got the Gentlemen Prefer Blondes reference though, its an old Marilyn Monroe movie, if you didn't.


short/small gals
blue eyes
small feet
Open mindedness.
body mods- tats, piercings.
A gal who puts in effort.


unkempt fingernails- disgusting!!!!!
large, weirdly shaped feet- i'm weird..i know.
touching while sleeping- can't do it.
sleeping in silence- " "
stinky girls- i'm giggling and grossed out typing this.
i'm sure there's more...
What I’m doing with my life
i have some traveling to do. I'm also a full time student, probably going for law.
I’m really good at
Starting random conversations and movie quoting.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes i guess. Or currently my glorious beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tom clancy books.

South park, 24, mad men, nat geo, discovery, history/h2

Country, rock, alternative, classical, 80s pop.
The six things I could never do without
Air? Food? Shelter? Gravity.

My playstation, the moments with people that matter most.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I'm going to end up alone with lots of pandas. Which in hindsight doesn't sound bad at all!...that and world domination...

also, i spend a rather large amount of time in my head. designing things, thinking of plot lines for comic books, contemplating reality and trying to find the truth of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing homework, or playing the shit out of star wars, and or a marvel/dc related game..thats right i'm a nerd.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sure you want to know? I'll keep this one PG.

When i take a shower, i usually turn on George Strait and sing along like I'm in concert.

Also...I'm into bdsm
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're not going to waste our time, you're witty, kind, and cute. You don't have some unrealistic expectation for this, i know we all had that moment where we asked ourselves if its really come to this? The interweb? Well it has...please don't expect some whirlwind fantasy date.

I'm really not looking for friends, i have some, they may all have got degrees and moved on, and are probably living the high life in Nebraska or something. Nebraska is a fancy place right? Yeah, it's a fly over state...Jason Aldean said those are the coolest, so it must be true. Must be. Point being...I have some.

Or if you agree that aeva12 has farty pants.