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notsojersey

25 / M / straight / Single

Teaneck, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am sweet, profane, and sugarcane.

My Self-Summary

art, love, beer, family, friends,hard work, great food, and better laughs.

admittedly, that is not a summary. but any day where i got to experience all of those things might just be the perfect day. Ideally i would like to spend all of my time getting tired good (as opposed to tired bad), and being tired bad.

I have a ton of random stories, and i'm pretty good at telling them. if you want to hear one, just ask.

I like going to the gym, but i would much rather play a sport or do something (rock climbing?) I love moving.

a little confused? i understand. but you should keep reading, i promise it gets better.

in case you couldn't tell, i can be pretty akward. dont hold it against me

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm teaching, and coaching a high school fencing team but i don't plan on doing that (teaching) forever. im also running a summer camp in maine. if any one is certified in ropes and adventure, we're hiring.

I’m really good at

really good?

i read like a champ and am an excellent road trip participant/driver.

i can also curse very effectively

im pretty good at ultimate, fencing, and juggling

i'm not even a little good, but i just started playing piano and i really like it.

The first things people usually notice about me

i assume that girls are dazzled by my good looks, but it turns out that more often then not its that i look ridiculous.

maybe that im tall?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:
I love to read and kind of hate the idea of compiling a list. sorry. I would love to talk about it though.
My favorite author is Tom Robbins, but i also really enjoy Colson Whitehead. The Iliad is not my favorite, but it might be the greatest thing i've ever read.

Movies:
I could spend all day in a movie theater and not complain once. my favorite is ghostbusters, but i also really like cool hand luke. I have a hard time watching anything more than once, but i'll watch those two movies and a few others whenever i get the chance.

I love to eat. thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. italian, russian, greek, and afghan are my favorite cuisines by country and i really appreciate home cooking. nothing is wrong with a good cheeseburger

i put off writing about music for a few weeks, but i think its time to give it a shot. I love the stuff. my favorite artists in no particular order are Elvis Costello, Johnny Cash, Jay-Z, Metallica (early), Lupe Fiasco, Nas, Bruce Springsteen, and many others. Genre wise my favorite is hip-hop, but i think i enjoy the best of all genres with the exception of country.

The six things I could never do without

8 ounces lasagna noodles
1 pound lean ground beef
1/2 cup chopped onion
1 jar (about 16 ounces) spaghetti sauce
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon dried leaf oregano, crumbled
1/2 teaspoon dried leaf basil, crumbled
1 1/2 cups ricotta cheese
2 cups shredded Monterey Jack cheese
3/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese

I spend a lot of time thinking about

spider man, mountain biking, teaching, hip hop, teaching hip hop, my friends, time travel (in a delorean of course), girls, adventures, space, Oregon, Egypt, the weekend, the summer,charity, poetry, the question of my own existence... i think alot

On a typical Friday night I am

lately my best friday nights are spent in the city. LES is one of my favorite places to be with a big group of good friends. im also perfectly happy hanging out at home or going on an adventure

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

liz lemmon is a 10. not that that is private, but it needed to be said

You should message me if

well shit. you should probably just message me no matter what. its a good idea.

im looking to spend sometime with a girl who i really like spending time with, and that doesn't seem like too much to ask for. did this make you laugh?

can you make me laugh? drop me a line