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40 Cincinnati, OH Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:53am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's fun to try and write this without sounding like a self-indulged douche. I am not a self-indulged douche, I think.

I am...
A lover of stories, they don't need to be epics. I love hearing about our common aspirations, mistakes, online dating wonkiness (oof)

Not into things mass produced. I realize this makes me a pretentious ass. I try not to be a pretentious ass. It also makes me a hypocrite... at times.

Living a rich life. My job, my house, my people, they are all big picture, passionate, fun, hard, inspiring. It's a blast.

Nature, fitness, good writing, bourbon, art, travel, theater, music, and all of the other stuff that cool people like.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run a nonprofit organization. That's my 9 to 5 (and 9 to 7, and 8 to 8 and weekends, at times). We have inspirational, invigorating work.

I have a house with a huge backyard that I am rehabbing. My ultimate goal would be to make it into a cool urban homestead, with gardens and goats and bees and chickens (check) and oxen. Not sure about zoning on the oxen, yet.

Writing paranthetical statements.

I have an irrational love for hummus. But I guess that's how all of love is, irrational.

Update: Avocados.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Daytrips, identifying plants, being with kids, making people laugh, leading meetings, conversation, teaching, hosting.

People are generally laughing when I'm around (though that could be the whole "laughing at me" thing)

For fairness sake, I am not good at small talk, deciding on where to go, gardening (this really kills my homesteading cred), saying "no", sleeping (I am horrible at sleeping).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Like most people, there is too much stuff to name but... off the top of my head... Yeasayer, Their Eyes Were Watching God, Radiolab, This American Life, Middlesex, The Power of Habit, most things recommended by NPR, Kid Cudi, Mates of State, sweet soulful folk and bluegrass, Bright Light Social Hour, Kishi Bashi, Walden, McSweeney's, etc, etc, etc.

You should know that this is happening in my house, should you... you know, come over and visit -
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like people to make you food. I love to cook people food. You sit on a chair while I pour you a glass of wine and then I cook and you pet the dog and the cat. Then we eat and you tell me stories.

Also stop messaging me for topless pics. I'm not a piece of meat.